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My Mum<br />

By: Rana Goodman / On My Soapbox<br />

She was a beautiful woman, inside and out. This<br />

woman I called Mum was smart, funny, brave<br />

and always ready to take off on new adventures.<br />

Her first adventure that I was part of was during World<br />

War II when the British Government came up with<br />

several ideas to move young children out of “harm’s<br />

way.” One of those ideas was to send some children who<br />

had relatives in the United States to sit out the war in<br />

America.<br />

Doing that meant volunteers were needed to<br />

accompany and care for those children until the<br />

transfer to family members could be made. My mother<br />

was one of those volunteers, taking along my 4 year old<br />

brother and her yet un-born child … me.<br />

Delivery made, we (now) three and her fellow<br />

volunteers headed home, unaware that another<br />

“adventure” was one day away. As their ship passed the<br />

point of no return, December 7, 1941 Pearl Harbor was<br />

attacked and America entered the war.<br />

Once safely back on British soil, my mother (who was an<br />

incredible seamstress) began designing and sewing to support us while<br />

the war raged on while my dad was serving King and country.<br />

It’s been said that small women are tough, and that she was. At 4’11<br />

she was ready to take on the world. Not the type to rant and rave when<br />

angry, her left eyebrow would shoot up and we kids knew to shut our<br />

mouth and stay out of her way.<br />

Most of the time however, without even trying, she would be so funny.<br />

A perfect example was one evening.<br />

My father passed away in 2003, and we opted to sell<br />

their home. It meant mum would move in with me so<br />

that I could take care of her. After looking at several<br />

options, we chose Sun City Anthem to have a home<br />

built.<br />

Once we settled in, I asked my mother who was 90<br />

years old, if she felt like going out to dinner and then<br />

perhaps, we could meet some ladies and get into a card<br />

game at the Center. She looked me right in the eye<br />

and said, “Hell no, lets go to the Mirage, these<br />

people are far too old!”<br />

Then there was the day that I walked into the house<br />

with the mail, separating hers from mine. I placed hers<br />

in front of her and walked into my office.<br />

A few minutes later she pushed her little walker into<br />

the room, her face flushed with excitement and said, “Look at this,<br />

I’ve won the Publisher’s Clearing House thing”<br />

I took the papers from her hand and quietly pointed out that the<br />

letter said, “you might have won.” That darn eyebrow went up as she<br />

stared at me, and as she walked away, mumbled, You don’t know what<br />

you’re talking about, I WON!<br />

Mum turned 92 in January 2005, and a month later I lost her. I hope<br />

she knew that love is eternal, and I miss that beautiful woman every<br />

single day.<br />

As I think of my own beautiful Mum, Publisher Dan<br />

and I wish moms everywhere a wonderful Mother’s Day<br />

Final Wishes Passes Nevada Senate<br />

8<br />

<strong>May</strong> <strong>2023</strong><br />

W<br />

e are very proud to announce that last month, the Nevada<br />

Senate passed SB239, the Final Wishes/Death with Dignity bill.<br />

It must now pass the Assembly and get signed by Governor Lombardo,<br />

but our <strong>Vegas</strong> <strong>Voice</strong> efforts and of course, readers’ petitions were<br />

instrumental for such passage.<br />

But we’re not done yet. And for those that support our cause<br />

but have not yet filled out the petition, we still need your help. Let<br />

us decide what our options and final wishes should be – not the<br />

government.<br />

Simply fill out the attached petition and mail it to The <strong>Vegas</strong> <strong>Voice</strong>.<br />

The cost is only one stamp. And for those readers “on-line” visit our<br />

website: thevegasvoice.net and fill/send out the petition. The cost is<br />

$0.00. Total time - 20 seconds.

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