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How does Pornography<br />

Affect Teens?<br />

by Allen Warner, ContentWatch<br />

In a recent news story, two teenagers came<br />

clean of their addictions; both suffer from<br />

pornography addiction.<br />

One was a young man from Utah, 17,<br />

who said his experience with<br />

pornography addiction was a lonely<br />

time in his life. He began viewing<br />

pornographic images at a young age and<br />

couldn't stop throughout his high school<br />

experience until now. He felt isolated and<br />

trapped, as if he couldn't confide in anyone.<br />

He would lie to his parents, his relationships<br />

began to fail, and he felt alone. He said he<br />

felt he couldn't improve or even start new<br />

relationships with others because he felt<br />

he was lying to them by not being honest<br />

with his addiction.<br />

25<br />

The young woman, 22, from Texas<br />

revealed that her addiction to<br />

pornography, like many others, began<br />

when she was young. She said she<br />

would isolate herself because she hated<br />

what she was doing and hated that she<br />

couldn't stop viewing it. To many, porn<br />

is a man's problem. She discredits this<br />

idea with her personal experience with<br />

addiction. Her story is one of<br />

empowerment and courage for all<br />

addicts but especially for female<br />

addicts.<br />

Both teens are advocates for an anti-<br />

porn campaign called “Fight the New<br />

Drug.” The campaign seeks to educate<br />

teens on the effects of porn.<br />

For many teens, porn is a way to deal<br />

with negative emotions. It provides a<br />

europhic high that numbs away painful<br />

feelings. It's a “de-stressor” for many.<br />

Yet Matt Bulkley, a psychotherapist,<br />

believes we are just at the front end of<br />

the porn problem. He hypothesizes that<br />

in the next 5-10 years, a surge of porn<br />

addicts will appear. When the rising<br />

generation moves into adolescence,<br />

there will be a tragic epidemic of porn<br />

addiction, Bulkley says.<br />

Both of these stories have common<br />

themes: pornography addiction<br />

affects teens in dramatic ways. It<br />

causes addicts to isolate themselves,<br />

become depressed and lonely, have<br />

poor school performance, and

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