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that sexual and reproductive health education<br />

be made a compulsory and robust component<br />

of the official curricula <strong>in</strong> primary and secondary<br />

schools, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g vocational schools (Center<br />

for Reproductive Rights, 2008a; See also ICPD,<br />

paragraph 11.9).<br />

Peers<br />

Peers can <strong>in</strong>fluence how adolescents view becom<strong>in</strong>g<br />

pregnant, as well as their attitudes towards<br />

prevent<strong>in</strong>g pregnancy, dropp<strong>in</strong>g out of school or<br />

stay<strong>in</strong>g enrolled until graduation. Peer pressure<br />

can thus discourage early sexual debut and marriage,<br />

or it can re<strong>in</strong>force the likelihood of early<br />

and unprotected sexual activity (Chandra-Mouli<br />

et al., 2013).<br />

“I didn’t know he <strong>in</strong>tended to impregnate<br />

me this time, I remember our plan was<br />

when I turn 18… I was not ready to have<br />

a baby yet, which made me th<strong>in</strong>k of not<br />

go<strong>in</strong>g through with my pregnancy, but my<br />

friends <strong>in</strong>sisted I should s<strong>in</strong>ce my partner<br />

and I were already liv<strong>in</strong>g together… But I<br />

knew I was not really ready yet.”<br />

K.C., 18, pregnant at 17, the Philipp<strong>in</strong>es<br />

Partners<br />

Another <strong>in</strong>fluence is a girl’s sexual partner or<br />

spouse, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g his age and his views on marriage,<br />

sex, gender roles, contraception, pregnancy<br />

and childbear<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

Research on the early sexual activity of adolescent<br />

males shows that unhealthy perceptions<br />

about sex, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g see<strong>in</strong>g women as sexual<br />

objects, view<strong>in</strong>g sex as performance-oriented and<br />

us<strong>in</strong>g pressure or force to obta<strong>in</strong> sex, beg<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong><br />

adolescence and may cont<strong>in</strong>ue <strong>in</strong>to adulthood.<br />

Perceptions of mascul<strong>in</strong>ity among young men<br />

and adolescent boys are a driv<strong>in</strong>g force for male<br />

risk-tak<strong>in</strong>g behaviour, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g unsafe sexual<br />

practices.<br />

Men and boys: partners <strong>in</strong> the process<br />

Strengthen<strong>in</strong>g opportunities for boys and young<br />

men to participate <strong>in</strong> support<strong>in</strong>g gender-equality<br />

efforts can have an impact not only on women<br />

and girls but also on their own lives (UNFPA<br />

2013b).<br />

Boys and men are often socialized to believe<br />

that the enjoyment of sexual relations is viewed as<br />

their prerogative, and they are taught to take the<br />

lead <strong>in</strong> their sexual relationships, creat<strong>in</strong>g significant<br />

pressure (and <strong>in</strong>security). Traditional views of<br />

what it means to be a man can encourage men to<br />

seek out multiple sexual partnerships and to take<br />

sexual risks (UNFPA, 2012).<br />

Though women more consistently suffer the<br />

negative effects of harmful gender norms across<br />

their lifetimes, societies also socialize their men,<br />

male adolescents and boys <strong>in</strong> ways that drive<br />

poor sexual and reproductive health outcomes. In<br />

many societies, men are encouraged to assert their<br />

manhood by tak<strong>in</strong>g risks, assert<strong>in</strong>g their toughness,<br />

endur<strong>in</strong>g pa<strong>in</strong>, be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>dependent providers,<br />

and hav<strong>in</strong>g multiple sex partners. The roles and<br />

46 CHAPTER 3: PRESSURES FROM MANY DIRECTIONS

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