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Pregnancy is a natural result of sexual activity and integral to God’s design and command for<br />

humans to “be fruitful and increase in number” (Genesis 1:28). If God permits a pregnancy,<br />

planned or unplanned, we should understand that God is forming a new life in his image. Sex is a<br />

responsible act only in a relationship in which a couple is willing to care for any children that can<br />

come from that union. However, in stark contrast to the biblical vision, irresponsible and<br />

flippant treatment of sex abounds in our society. It is no wonder that unplanned pregnancy<br />

similarly abounds and places many parents and their children in environmentally, economically<br />

and emotionally precarious states.<br />

We recognize the pain, fear and even anguish that sometimes accompanies an unplanned<br />

pregnancy. The parents, particularly when they are young or unmarried, are often overwhelmed<br />

by the sacrifices that would be required to care for a young life. In too many cases, fathers desert<br />

their partners and unborn children as soon as pregnancy is discovered. Abandoned pregnant<br />

mothers may feel hopeless in the face of the daunting challenges of single parenting. Sadly,<br />

many fathers and mothers in these situations each year turn away from the joys and<br />

responsibilities of parenting or the alternative of adoption, and many then bear heavy burdens<br />

stemming from those decisions for years to come.<br />

Approximately half of all pregnancies are unplanned, and more than 40 percent of these three<br />

million unplanned pregnancies are aborted. This accounts for the vast majority of America’s<br />

abortions every year. 3 Any serious attempt to reduce the number of abortions must therefore<br />

come to terms with unplanned pregnancy, the pandemic of extramarital sex and the complex<br />

issues surrounding contraception and other family planning methods. Where couples are not<br />

willing to accept the responsibilities of parenting, they should educate themselves about ethical<br />

methods of family planning. The <strong>Church</strong> is understandably reluctant to recommend<br />

contraception for unmarried sexual partners, given that it cannot condone extramarital sex.<br />

However, it is even more tragic when unmarried individuals compound one sin by conceiving<br />

and then destroying the precious gift of life. Witness the far reaching consequences to King<br />

David’s sins of adultery and murder. 4<br />

In some cases, couples embracing pregnancy face diagnoses of potential complications for their<br />

prenatal child. Too often these diagnoses are accompanied by suggestions towards abortion. For<br />

example, prenatal diagnoses of Down syndrome result in abortion in approximately 90 percent of<br />

such situations. 5 We are deeply saddened not only by such a staggering trend but also its subtle<br />

eugenic implications. Parenting a child with physical or developmental difficulties can be a<br />

significant challenge but also a great blessing. We believe churches should strive to be<br />

communities offering extra love and support for families who conceive or adopt special needs<br />

children.<br />

We do not wish to exalt a one-size-fits-all approach to abortion reduction. Rather, we urge<br />

church leaders, always with a mind to honor God’s gifts of life and sex and his holy institutions<br />

of marriage and family, to seek out strategies appropriate for their congregations and<br />

communities.<br />

We are grateful for those already working in ministries supporting children and youth, pregnancy<br />

care, adoption, single parents and parents of children with special needs, poverty relief, biblically<br />

2<br />

COB Meeting July 19-20, 2010

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