who have primary responsibility for young people.Although this chapter will focus mostly on communicationbetween parents and their adolescent (orteen) children, verbal or non-verbal communicationabout sexuality can and typically does begin muchearlier. And finally, considerable research on parentchildcommunication focuses on verbal communicationabout particular sexual topics, but it should befully recognized that parents commonly communicatetheir values about sexual activity, contraception,teen pregnancy and the like both non-verbally andthrough their own modeling of relationships andsexual behavior.Focusing on Parent-ChildCommunication About SexFor decades, professionals concerned about youngpeople have worked to increase parent-child communicationabout sexuality as part of their effortsto reduce the rates of teen pregnancy and STDs,including HIV infection. These efforts frequentlywere based upon several beliefs:• Parents should be the primary sexuality educatorsof their children, but youth are exposed to a greatdeal of sex-related content in the media, on theInternet, from their friends and sometimes fromschool.• Parents talk infrequently and inadequately withtheir children about sexuality because they haveconsiderable difficulty and discomfort discussingthe subject.• Effective parent-child communication aboutsexuality will lead to less sexual risk-taking on thepart of young people.• Properly designed programs can increase effectiveparent-child communication about sexuality andcomfort with that communication, thereby reducingadolescent sexual risk-taking.• Encouraging parents to be the primary sexualityeducators of their children is less controversialthan teaching sex or STD/HIV education inschools.For all these reasons, people concerned about adolescentsexuality have developed activities or entireprograms (sometimes for children and their parentsand sometimes for parents alone) to help parents andtheir children communicate more effectively andmore comfortably about sexuality.When reviewing the research on parent-child communication,several questions should be asked:1. Does parent-child communication about sexaffect adolescent sexual behavior?2. Can activities and programs for teens increaseparent-child communication about sex and contraception?How?3. Can programs for parents and their teens togetherincrease parent-child communication about sexand contraception and actually reduce sexual risk?How?4. Can programs for only parents increase parentchildcommunication about sex? How?5. What are tips for parents about how to talk aboutsexual topics?Does parent-child communication about sex affectadolescent sexual behavior?According to theorists, parent-child communicationabout sexuality affects teens’ sexuality-relatedknowledge, values, attitudes, self-efficacy and intentionsto engage in sexual behaviors, which, in turn,affect actual behavior.In dozens of studies, investigators have examinedthe assumption that parent-child communicationabout sex actually reduces adolescent sexual risktakingeither by delaying sex or using condomsor other forms of contraception (Miller 1998).Typically, they have used survey data to analyzethese relationships. Unfortunately, it is difficult tomeasure the impact of this communication on teensexual behavior, both because there are numerousmethodological challenges (e.g., difficultiesin measuring the extent of communication and inestablishing causality) and because the relationshipbetween such communication and teen sexual108 <strong>Reducing</strong> <strong>Adolescent</strong> <strong>Sexual</strong> <strong>Risk</strong>: A <strong>Theoretical</strong> Guide for Developing and Adapting Curriculum-Based Programs
ehavior may be quite complex (Jaccard, Dittus etal. 1993).Greater parent-child communication about sex andbirth control is not consistently related to sexualbehavior (Table 9-1). One of the reasons is that theremay be a positive spurious (non-causal) relationshipbetween parent-child communication and initiationof sexual intercourse. That is, when teens becomeinvolved in romantic relationships and situationsthat might lead to initiating sexual activity, theybecome more likely to have sexual activity and theirparents become more likely to discuss delayingsexual activity (and using contraception) with them.Thus, it is not surprising that some studies showthat teens who have had sex are more likely to havediscussed delaying sex with their parents than teenswho have not had sex. However, this does not meanthat if parents talk to their teens about delaying sexbefore their teens actually have sex, their teens willhave sex sooner. In fact, two studies show that whenparents did talk with their teens about delaying theirinitiation of sex before teens had initiated sex, thenthe teens were likely to wait longer to initiate sex(Table 9-2) (East 1996; Whitaker and Miller 2000).Studies also suggest that the impact of parent-childcommunication about sexual activity may depend onvarious characteristics of parents, their children andtheir message. For example, if mothers disapproveof teens having sexual relations, communicationtakes place early, and there is a close mother-childrelationship, then mother-daughter communicationmay delay the daughter’s initiation of sexual intercourse.However, there may be less impact on delayof sexual contact if parents do not disapprove ofteens having sexual relations, the parents are talkingto sons rather than to daughters, the communicationtakes place too late, or the parents are not closeto their children (Jaccard, Dittus et al. 1993; Miller1998; Kirby and Lepore 2007).There is stronger and more consistent evidence thatwhen parents accept and support contraceptive useand encourage their teens to use contraception,then the teens are more likely to use contraception.Three studies found positive effects of parentalacceptance and support of contraception on teenuse of contraception; none found non-significantor negative effects (Kalagian, Loewen et al. 1998;Jaccard and Dittus 2000; Longmore, Manning et al.2003). Similarly, five studies found a positive effectof parent-child communication about contraception,only two found insignificant effects, and nonefound a negative effect (Table 9-3) (Casper 1990;Loewenstein and Furstenberg 1991; Reschovsky andGerner 1991; Moore, Morrison et al. 1995; Jaccard,Dittus et al. 1996; DiClemente, Wingood et al.2001; Kirby and Lepore 2007). Practical implicationsof this research are that in order to reducesexual risks, parents should discourage sexual initiationbefore their teens initiate sexual activity andsupport contraceptive use before or as soon as theirteens have sexual intercourse.Table9-1Parent-child communicationabout sex and birthcontrol (N=14)Table9-2Number of Studies Reporting anAssociation Between Parent-ChildCommunication About Sex and Teens’Initiation of SexParent-child communicationabout sex beforethe teens had initiatedsex (N=3)Table9-3LaterInitiationof SexNoSignificantRelationshipsEarlierInitiationof Sex2 6 6Number of Studies Reporting Effects ofParent-Child Communication About Sex onTeens’ Subsequent Initiation of SexDelayedInitiationof SexNoSignificantRelationshipsHastenedInitiationof Sex2 1 0Number of Studies Reporting Effectsof Parent-Child Communication AboutSex on Teens’ Condom or OtherContraceptive UseParent-child communicationabout sex and birthcontrol (N=7)Increased Useof Condomsor OtherContraceptivesNoSignificantRelationshipReduced Useof Condomsor OtherContraceptives5 2 0Chapter 9 Increasing Parent-Child Communication About Sex 109
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