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Wheel of life<br />

If you’re feeling unsatisfied with key areas of your life, then this special<br />

coaching tool could be the perfect thing to help you reassess and rebalance<br />

Writing | Kat Nicholls<br />

When was the last time<br />

you took a step back<br />

and evaluated how<br />

content you’re feeling<br />

with life in general? Maybe you’re<br />

struggling in your career, or your<br />

health is worrying you. Whatever<br />

the issues are, they can build<br />

slowly, knocking you off balance,<br />

and having a profound impact<br />

on your wellbeing. But taking a<br />

moment to look at your life as a<br />

whole can help you identify the<br />

areas that need attention to bring<br />

you back into balance.<br />

What is the wheel of life tool?<br />

By plotting how satisfied we<br />

are with each area of our life as<br />

spokes on a wheel, we can create<br />

a visual representation of how<br />

happy we are. Connecting the<br />

dots to form a circle helps us<br />

to see quickly and easily where<br />

we’ve lost balance, and recognise<br />

which areas need work.<br />

The original concept was<br />

created by Paul J Meyer, and<br />

today different variations of<br />

the wheel are used by coaches<br />

and those in the personal<br />

development space. But this is<br />

the great thing about the wheel<br />

– it’s versatility. You can pick<br />

whatever areas of your life are<br />

most important to you, and even<br />

go deeper with separate wheels<br />

for different areas. For example, if<br />

you’ve noted that your family life<br />

needs attention, you could create<br />

a dedicated wheel to help you drill<br />

down further.<br />

How to use the wheel of life tool<br />

If you’re ready to take a bird’seye<br />

view of your life, follow our<br />

instructions to have a go on the<br />

template wheel.<br />

1. Pick your life areas<br />

Choose which areas you want to<br />

look at. Need a little inspiration?<br />

Here are some ideas:<br />

• Relationships<br />

• Career<br />

• Parenting/family<br />

• Physical health<br />

• Mental health<br />

• Finances<br />

• Personal development<br />

• Fun/recreational activities<br />

• Home<br />

• Spirituality<br />

These are just some ideas, so<br />

pick the areas that feel most<br />

relevant to you right now, and<br />

then name each spoke.<br />

2. Assess your life areas<br />

Rate each area of your life on a<br />

scale from 0–10. If everything in<br />

that area is perfect, it’s a 10, but<br />

if there’s work needed, it’ll score<br />

lower. Take time with this step,<br />

and really consider how much<br />

attention you’re currently giving<br />

each area. Mark your scores on<br />

each spoke with a dot or cross.<br />

3. Connect the dots<br />

Simply connect the dots to form<br />

your circle. How does it look?<br />

Can you see where your balance<br />

may be off?<br />

4. Consider your ideal score<br />

for each area<br />

While many of us may want to<br />

achieve a perfect score of 10 in<br />

32 • happiful.com • <strong>September</strong> <strong>2020</strong>

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