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TRUE LIFE<br />
The breakthrough<br />
after my breakdown<br />
Lifesaving surgery at four months old led Flo to a<br />
mental breakdown when she was just eight, and<br />
resulted in a childhood defined by mental health.<br />
As a teenager, Flo had the lightbulb moment to stop<br />
letting her mental illnesses define her, and started<br />
sharing her story to empower and inspire others<br />
Writing | Flo Sharman<br />
While my birth<br />
was pretty<br />
straightforward,<br />
when I was four months<br />
old everything changed.<br />
I stopped breathing on<br />
many occasions, and my<br />
incredible mother had<br />
to resuscitate me several<br />
times – including on the<br />
day of my christening.<br />
I needed a life-saving<br />
operation to remove parts<br />
of my stomach to treat<br />
serious acid reflux, which<br />
was affecting my ability to<br />
breathe, and I had to stay<br />
in hospital for months.<br />
I had slow development,<br />
and remember needing a<br />
special chair and shoes,<br />
but apart from that things<br />
were looking up – we all<br />
thought that once life had<br />
dealt me that big, old card,<br />
surely I wouldn’t have to<br />
deal with another one.<br />
I really wish that was the<br />
case, but unfortunately<br />
it wasn’t. I remember<br />
the night that my life<br />
changed forever as if it<br />
was yesterday. This is<br />
my reminder to you all<br />
to cherish everything<br />
you have, and live in the<br />
moment, because you<br />
really don’t know what’s<br />
around the corner.<br />
My mental breakdown<br />
didn’t come gradually, it<br />
happened pretty much<br />
overnight, when I was just<br />
eight years old – and for<br />
me it came out as physical<br />
illness symptoms, not<br />
those of a classic mental<br />
breakdown. I woke up in<br />
the middle of the night in<br />
May 2008 blind, paralysed,<br />
hallucinating, my lip had<br />
dropped, I couldn’t talk,<br />
I was retching, and had a<br />
headache. I was rushed to<br />
hospital and they thought<br />
that I had a bleed on the<br />
brain or a brain infection,<br />
but how wrong they were.<br />
I stayed in overnight and<br />
was discharged the next<br />
morning with doctors<br />
saying it was a fluke, and<br />
would never happen again.<br />
But in 2017 I found out<br />
that the reason I had my<br />
mental breakdown, and<br />
the reason it showed itself<br />
in this way, is due to my<br />
traumatic experience in<br />
hospital during the early<br />
parts of my life, and this<br />
is the main root cause<br />
of my mental illnesses –<br />
PTSD, OCD, depression,<br />
and panic attacks. I truly<br />
believe that if, at the time<br />
of my mental breakdown<br />
in 2008, more research<br />
had been done to find<br />
the links between mental<br />
health breakdowns due<br />
to trauma as a baby, my<br />
journey would have been<br />
very different. That is<br />
why I’m so proud to be an<br />
ambassador for MQ, who<br />
are the UK’s leading mental<br />
health research charity. >>><br />
<strong>September</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • happiful.com • 87