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the organisation. I depended upon<br />

experts for other stuff.<br />

Understand that hierarchy<br />

creates barriers<br />

My parents always said it didn’t<br />

matter whether you were a dustbin<br />

man, the general manager, the<br />

president of the golf club, or the<br />

caddie – everyone should<br />

be afforded the same level<br />

of respect.<br />

You can either<br />

treat hierarchy as an<br />

inappropriate weapon, or<br />

you can understand that<br />

hierarchy creates barriers<br />

and slows success.<br />

Perfection<br />

doesn’t exist<br />

There is no such thing as<br />

perfection – it’s human<br />

nature to pick holes in<br />

somebody else’s work, and<br />

to find ways of showing<br />

how clever we are. Always<br />

remember, you might<br />

have done something<br />

differently, but it doesn’t<br />

mean you would have<br />

done it better!<br />

You need to have a<br />

mindset of ‘let’s just have<br />

a go’ in business, and then<br />

take customer feedback<br />

onboard and adjust. Like<br />

a child learning to ride a<br />

bike, you may fall off and<br />

scrape your knee, but you’ll get<br />

back on and learn.<br />

Tough choices are inevitable<br />

I went to a playground to pick up<br />

my children, and the other parents<br />

thought I was stepping in for their<br />

mum, who was the nanny, because<br />

I was there so irregularly. That<br />

hurt, but the reality was that I was<br />

paying the bills, I was growing the<br />

business, and that was the sacrifice<br />

I chose to make.<br />

Remove guilt<br />

Please take the word “guilt” out of<br />

your vernacular! Life isn’t perfect,<br />

and there is no continual state<br />

of balance – though you can find<br />

pockets of calm.<br />

Do stop, to move forward again<br />

The “Stop. Inhale. Reset” mantra<br />

from Scentered is a powerful one.<br />

If you have a determination to lead<br />

a really interesting life, then you<br />

need to pause and plan it. Taking<br />

time to do this can absolutely<br />

change your trajectory.<br />

Be a work in progress<br />

Keep working on yourself, writing<br />

those plans, and learning. You are<br />

your own life-long project.<br />

Find out more about Scentered at<br />

scentered.me. Lara’s book ‘More Balls<br />

than Most: Juggle Your Way to Success<br />

with Proven Company Shortcuts’,<br />

is available on Amazon.

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