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Saving Fish from Drowning - Heal Burma

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AMY TAN<br />

agitate when it is better to simply relax and let matters be. That is the<br />

reason some believe Shangri-La is so important as the antidote. It is<br />

a mindset for the masses—one might bottle it as Sublime Indiffer­<br />

ence, a potion that induces people to follow the safest route, which<br />

is, of course, the status quo, anesthesia for the soul. Throughout the<br />

world you can find many Shangri-Las. I have lived in my share of<br />

them. Plenty of dictators have used them as a means to quell the<br />

populace—be quiet or be killed. It is so in <strong>Burma</strong>. But in art, lovely<br />

subversive art, you see what breaks through in spite of restraint, or<br />

even because of it. Art despises placidity and smooth surfaces. With­<br />

out art, I would have drowned under still waters.<br />

T HERE WAS NOTHING PLACID about Wendy Brookhyser. She had<br />

come to <strong>Burma</strong> with an itch in her brain and a fever in her heart. She<br />

wanted to fight for Burmese rights, for democracy and freedom of<br />

speech. She could not tell anyone that, however. That would be dan­<br />

gerous. To her fellow travelers, Wendy said she was the director of a<br />

family foundation. And that was indeed the case, a foundation set up<br />

by her mother, Mary Ellen Brookhyser Feingold Fong, the “marrying<br />

widow,” as she was unkindly called in some circles. In her position as<br />

director, Wendy had never done much more than attend an occasional<br />

meeting. For that, she received a salary sufficient for a carefree lifestyle<br />

with regular infusions <strong>from</strong> her mother for her birthday, Christ­<br />

mas, Chanukah, and Chinese New Year. Money was her birthright, but<br />

since her teens, she was adamant she would not become a party-<br />

throwing socialite like her mother.<br />

Here I must interject my own opinion that the aforementioned<br />

mother was not the senseless schemer her daughter made her out to<br />

be. Mary Ellen gave the best parties to draw attention to worthy<br />

causes. She didn’t simply write checks to charities like other nine-<br />

digit doyennes who had generous pocketbooks but not the time to<br />

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