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REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH OF NORTH AMERICA 235<br />

6. A marriage should be a joyous, festive occasion. The bride and groom m<br />

desire to frame their own vows and make suggestions regarding the content <strong>of</strong> the<br />

ceremony. Nevertheless, the final decision about the content and conduct <strong>of</strong> the<br />

ceremony shall be at the discretion <strong>of</strong> the <strong>of</strong>ficiating minister(s). We suggest the<br />

following general pattern:<br />

6.1 Introduaion. When the parties to the marriage are before the minister, he<br />

may say,<br />

"We are gathered in the presence <strong>of</strong> God and <strong>of</strong> this company, to join<br />

this man and this woman in the holy estate <strong>of</strong> marriage.<br />

Marriage was instituted by God from the beginning. God said, "It is<br />

not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help suitable for<br />

him" (Gen. 2:18). God then created woman <strong>of</strong> man's own substance and<br />

brought her to him.<br />

The Lord Jesus Christ honored marriage by his presence at the wedding<br />

in Cana <strong>of</strong> Galilee, and confirmedit as a divine ordinance and a union not<br />

to be severed, when he declared, "What therefore God has joined<br />

together, let no man put asunder" (Matt. 19:6).<br />

Furthermore, the apostle Paul set forth the sacred nature <strong>of</strong> the<br />

marriage relationship when, in Ephesians 5:22-33, he compared it by<br />

analogy to the spiritual union between Christ and his church.<br />

The purpose <strong>of</strong> marriage, then,is the enrichment <strong>of</strong> the lives <strong>of</strong> those<br />

entering into this relationship, the nurture <strong>of</strong> a new generation, and the<br />

extension <strong>of</strong> Christ's church, to the glory <strong>of</strong> our covenant God."<br />

6.2 Prayer. The minister should then pray for a blessing upon the union about<br />

to be effeaed.<br />

6.3 The reading <strong>of</strong> Scripture. Appropriate passages <strong>of</strong> Scripture may be read,<br />

such as Genesis 2:18-24; Matthew 19:3-6; Proverbs 31; Isaiah 32:2; 1 John<br />

4:12-21; Ephesians 5; and 1 Corinthians 13.<br />

6.4 Charge to the couple. The minister may then give a brief address, out <strong>of</strong><br />

the Scripture, showing the institution, use, and goals <strong>of</strong> marriage. He should<br />

exhort them to study the word <strong>of</strong> God that they may learn to live by faith and be<br />

content in the midst <strong>of</strong> all the cares and challenges <strong>of</strong> marriage. He should also<br />

urge them to pray with and for one another, to watch over and encourage one<br />

another to love and good works, and to live together as the heirs <strong>of</strong> the grace <strong>of</strong><br />

life.<br />

6.5 Giving away <strong>of</strong> the bride. The minister may then ask "Who gives this<br />

woman to be married to this man" and her parent(s) will answer, "l/we do."<br />

6.6 Exchange <strong>of</strong> vows.<br />

(a) The minister shall next ask the parties to join their right hands and give assent<br />

to the marriage vows.<br />

To the man, he shall say:

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