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• “ A person who recites the Quran for the benefit of the unlettered, it will be like doing
the Jehad. Heaven will be mandatory for such a person.
• The Prophet of Allah(a.s.) said,” O Abu Dharr! Don’t adopt the company of any other
person than a momin. Share your repast with none other than the pious. Don’t share
the table with hypocrites and evil persons. O Abu Dharr! You share your food with
those whom you consider your friends and share the food with those who keep your
friendship for the sake of Allah!"
• Imam Mohammed Baqir (a.s.) says,” My revered father, Imam Zain al Abedeen (a.s.),
has said,’ O son! Don’t meet, converse or befirend five types of persons: 1.Don’t sit in
the company of a liar. He will be like a mirage that distant things seem near to you
and nearer objects as distant. 2. Don’t keep the company of a hypocrite that he can
sell you for a morsel or less. 3. Don’t befriend a parsimonious person who will value
his money more than you in time of your need. 4. Don’t be friends with a fool that
with all good intentions he might put you to harm in his foolishness. 5. Don’t befirend
a person who deprives the rights of his kin ( Qateh e Rahem). In the Holy Quran
Allah curses such a person thrice.”
• Hazrat Ali (a.s.), in one of his sermons, said,” O Believers! It is necessary that you
refrain from the company of three types of persons: 1. The shameless sinners and
hypocrites. 2. Foolish idiots. 3. The liars.” He added,” The hypocrite will present to
you the bad deeds as good and try to make you follow in his footsteps. He will not
guide you properly in the matters of faith. His company will be the cause of shame
for you. The company of a foolish person will not help to take the right path. Don’t
expect him to come to your succor in times of difficulty, however much he tries to do
it. Don’t expect any happiness from the company of a liar. He will tell lies to others
about you. .To uphold one falsehood, he will invent many lies.. Even if such a person
tells a truth, people wouldn’t believe him. He might create enmities amidst people by
telling lies. You must always seriously consider whose friendship you should
cultivate.”
• Imam Mohammed Baqir (a.s.) says,” Be friends with a person who makes you cry
with the fear of Allah and is your wellwisher. Don’t follow one who makes you laugh
and tricks you into faults. Soon you will have to go before Allah for accounting of
your deeds.!”
• Imam Jafar e Sadiq (a.s.) says,” Amongst my brothers the best friend is one who
points out my faults to me.” And added,” There are limits to friendship and
truthfulness. Those who don’t recognise these limits, they don’t realise the value of
truthfulness. A true friend is one who: 1. Keeps the same attitude with you openly and
in secret. 2. Who considers what is good for him as good for you, and what is bad for
himself he considers bad for you. 3. If he acquires high station in society, doesn’t
change his behaviour towards you. 4. He doesn’t deny you what he has control over.
5. He doesn’t cold shoulder you if you are confronted with any worldly hardship.”
• It is narrated from the Prophet of Islam (a.s.) that the most felicitous person is one
who keeps the company of good persons. Hazrat Eeesa (a.s.) was once asked by his
companions,” O Prophet of Allah (a.s.)! What sort of person we should befriend?”
Her said,” Looking at whom you remember Allah! Their talk enhances your
knowledge! Their deeds make you seek the rewards of the Hereafter!”