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wellbeing<br />

1. You can’t crossreference<br />

the facts<br />

Often, you may hear a report<br />

and go online to source further<br />

information. If you find it is<br />

difficult to attain additional or<br />

unbiased facts about it, gaslighting<br />

tactics could be at play.<br />

2. Information is vague,<br />

unclear, or contradictory<br />

The facts you’ve read often don’t<br />

add up, leaving you questioning<br />

what the actual message is and,<br />

importantly, what the desired<br />

outcome of the piece was. How<br />

did you expect to feel upon<br />

Nikki shares four examples<br />

of how media gaslighting<br />

tries to maintain control:<br />

• Raising anxiety levels,<br />

leading to a desire to<br />

follow a person(s) in<br />

authority.<br />

• Repetition brings<br />

retention. Information<br />

repeated often enough<br />

is likely to be adopted as<br />

truth.<br />

• Shutting down<br />

oppositional views or<br />

overpowering them with<br />

one-sided views.<br />

• Editing media to portray<br />

a predetermined public<br />

image that is<br />

inaccurate.<br />

reading the headline vs how you<br />

feel now? Often it’s confused, and<br />

even fearful.<br />

3. Information is altered<br />

Have you ever read a story, gone<br />

back to show a friend a few<br />

days later, and the information<br />

is not as you remember? Did<br />

you question if you had read it<br />

correctly? With media gaslighting,<br />

information is changed and<br />

altered as time goes by without<br />

factual evidence to support it, or<br />

signposts to note the changes.<br />

4. A significant<br />

bias is present<br />

What is reported is published for<br />

positive gains biased towards an<br />

individual, group, or organisation,<br />

and not the bigger picture. This<br />

is often seen in politics, notably<br />

around elections.<br />

5. You’re urged to support<br />

the story on social media<br />

When you read a story on<br />

social media, are you instantly<br />

bombarded with messages<br />

asking you to ‘show your support’<br />

by sharing the piece? Media<br />

gaslighting often calls on readers<br />

to advocate for their narratives;<br />

asking you to share their story<br />

suggesting you have subscribed<br />

to an official recommendation,<br />

that may or may not be true.<br />

Whether you’re privy to the<br />

gossip columns or it’s strictly<br />

business only, we hope these tips<br />

will put media gaslighting on<br />

your radar, and support you to<br />

question the unquestionable.<br />

Nikki Emerton is an NLP master<br />

practitioner, life coach, and hypnotherapist<br />

specialising in helping people recover<br />

from controlling relationships so that they<br />

can rebuild their lives. Find out more by<br />

visiting lifecoach-directory.org.uk

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