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A sincere interest, even drive, to get involved in a range <strong>of</strong> activities<br />

conveniently provides a diverse platform for selling their services.<br />

Extroverts Energize with Others (Social)<br />

Extroverts gain energy from socializing. I’ll say it one more time!<br />

Extroverts are energized by casual conversation. For the standard<br />

introvert, drained by small talk, this is a diffi cult concept to grasp. Yet<br />

this same trait can also be the source <strong>of</strong> some envy, when we introverts<br />

are honest with ourselves.<br />

Extroverts in my seminars have been known to proclaim, “I can talk<br />

to anyone about anything!’” Introverts stare with mouths dropped<br />

open, as if upon their fi rst viewing <strong>of</strong> a UFO.<br />

PARTY<br />

Extreme extroverts interact on the assumption that social interaction<br />

—<strong>of</strong> any quality or length, at virtually any time—is preferable to<br />

silence.<br />

For strong extroverts, mingling is a relaxing, rewarding aspect <strong>of</strong><br />

work. I have heard innumerable extroverts make proclamations along<br />

the lines <strong>of</strong> “Networking is the easiest part <strong>of</strong> what I do.” Extroverts<br />

engage strangers in conversation with ease. Many extroverts consider<br />

social functions a highlight <strong>of</strong> their jobs. Party on!<br />

A FEW BENEFITS OF EXTROVERSION<br />

■ Spontaneous interactions → engage in conversation with litt le<br />

eff ort<br />

■ Comfort in a range <strong>of</strong> situations → at ease with diverse people<br />

and circumstances<br />

■ Release <strong>of</strong> grudges or slights → easily let go <strong>of</strong> confl ict, do not<br />

take things personally<br />

THE DESTRUCTION OF STEREOTYPES 35

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