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48 PART ONE The Context<br />

We may not be able to express our knowledge in words. The best we may<br />

be able to say is “I just know, that’s all” or “I know because I know.” Yet<br />

these replies are feeble and hardly satisfy those who wish to verify our<br />

knowledge or acquire it.<br />

Testing Your Own Knowledge<br />

Following are some items of “common knowledge.” Determine how<br />

many you already know, and then decide, if possible, how you came to<br />

know each. Complete this informal inventory before continuing with the<br />

chapter.<br />

1. Women are nurturing but men are not.<br />

2. African Americans had little or no part in settling the American West.<br />

3. Expressing anger has the effect of reducing it and making us feel better.<br />

4. The Puritans were “prim, proper, and prudish prigs.”<br />

5. Before Columbus arrived in the New World, Native Americans lived in<br />

peace with one another and in respectful harmony with the environment.<br />

6. Alfred Kinsey’s research on human sexuality is scrupulously scholarly<br />

and objective.<br />

7. Employers import unskilled labor from other countries to save<br />

money.<br />

8. The practice of slavery originated in colonial America.<br />

It would be surprising if you did not think you knew most of these<br />

items. After all, many writers have written about them, and they are<br />

widely accepted as conventional wisdom. But let’s look a little more<br />

closely at each of them.<br />

1. Barbara Risman became curious about this idea and decided to<br />

study it further. Her findings challenged the conventional wisdom.<br />

Apparently, men who are responsible for caring for children or elderly<br />

parents display the same nurturing traits usually associated with<br />

women. She concluded that these traits are as dependent on one’s<br />

role in life as on one’s sex. 1<br />

2. The facts contradict what is known. For example, 25 percent of the<br />

cowboys in Texas cattle drives were African American, as were 60<br />

percent of original settlers of Los Angeles. 2 The reason these facts are<br />

not more widely known is probably because of scholarly omission of<br />

information about African Americans from the history books.<br />

3. Conventional wisdom again is wrong. After reviewing the evidence<br />

about anger, Carol Tavris concludes, “The psychological rationales<br />

for ventilating anger do not stand up under experimental scrutiny.<br />

The weight of the evidence indicates precisely the opposite: expressing<br />

anger makes you angrier, solidifies an angry attitude, and establishes

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