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The Manor of Alderton 3 rd edition<br />

Things went from bad to worse, for under the headline ‘Delicate Discovery’, it<br />

was soon reported that Lady Caroline Neeld had recently been taken ill <strong>and</strong><br />

delivered of ‘a little stranger’, much to the consternation <strong>and</strong> humiliation of her<br />

husb<strong>and</strong> of four months. It further alleged that she had had an affair with a<br />

Guards officer shortly before their wedding, was entitled under their marriage<br />

settlement to £10,000 a year in the event of a separation, for whatever reason,<br />

<strong>and</strong> that Neeld, whom the authors would not have thought was ‘overencumbered<br />

with brains, were we not assured to the contrary’, had been<br />

thoroughly imposed upon 414 .<br />

After only a short time the couple removed to 6 Grosvenor Square, the Neeld<br />

London home. Joseph moved into Coulston’s Hotel nearby <strong>and</strong> threatened to sell<br />

the house <strong>and</strong> even went so far as to order a broker to value the things <strong>and</strong><br />

“stuck up a Bill to Let with his own h<strong>and</strong>” 415<br />

In June of 1832 it was reported 416 that the couple were separated or about to<br />

separate 417 <strong>and</strong> in the same month Lady Caroline brought suit against Joseph<br />

for "restoration of conjugal rights" claiming that he had left her after two<br />

months; on 14 th July Joseph was ordered by the court to take her back. At a<br />

meeting that evening at Coulston’s Hotel Joseph reluctantly agreed that he had<br />

no option but to allow Caroline's return but presented her with a statement<br />

specifying the terms on which they were to live 418 . Joseph made sure these<br />

conditions were known to his acquaintances 419<br />

414 The Satirist 8 May 1831<br />

415 Jackson, JE (unknown, after 1856) Mss WANHS box 120 Mss 1298<br />

416 Baddeni, J (1966) Wiltshire Forefathers p69 In the Morning Herald<br />

417 The separation may well have already taken place, although the length of time the<br />

two were together is not certain. Melhuish (1979? Ibid) suggests 4 days, but no<br />

evidence is presented, whereas Badeni (1966 ibid) mentions a fortnight's honeymoon.<br />

418 See Badeni J (1966) ibid pp 70-71 for a copy of the letter.<br />

419 Jackson, JE ibid . The copy of the letter Jackson reports seeing was sent to the<br />

Rev C G Coles of Stanton. Jackson felt that this was all very proper – “Mr Neeld’s<br />

letters were throughout most kindly <strong>and</strong> properly expressed <strong>and</strong> he was perfectly<br />

justified in all that he did”<br />

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