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One afternoon, when I was around five years old, my gran left me at home for a few<br />
hours to go run errands. I was lying on the floor in the bedroom, reading. I needed to go, but<br />
it was pouring down rain. I was dreading going outside to use the toilet, getting drenched<br />
running out there, water dripping on me from the leaky ceiling, wet newspaper, the flies<br />
attacking me from below. Then I had an idea. Why bother with the outhouse at all? Why not<br />
put some newspaper on the floor and do my business like a puppy? That seemed like a<br />
fantastic idea. So that’s what I did. I took the newspaper, laid it out on the kitchen floor,<br />
pulled down my pants, and squatted and got to it.<br />
When you shit, as you first sit down, you’re not fully in the experience yet. You are not<br />
yet a shitting person. You’re transitioning from a person about to shit to a person who is<br />
shitting. You don’t whip out your smartphone or a newspaper right away. It takes a minute to<br />
get the first shit out of the way and get in the zone and get comfortable. Once you reach that<br />
moment, that’s when it gets really nice.<br />
It’s a powerful experience, shitting. There’s something magical about it, profound even. I<br />
think God made humans shit in the way we do because it brings us back down to earth and<br />
gives us humility. I don’t care who you are, we all shit the same. Beyoncé shits. The pope<br />
shits. The Queen of England shits. When we shit we forget our airs and our graces, we forget<br />
how famous or how rich we are. All of that goes away.<br />
You are never more yourself than when you’re taking a shit. You have that moment<br />
where you realize, This is me. This is who I am. You can pee without giving it a second<br />
thought, but not so with shitting. Have you ever looked in a baby’s eyes when it’s shitting?<br />
It’s having a moment of pure self-awareness. The outhouse ruins that for you. The rain, the<br />
flies, you are robbed of your moment, and nobody should be robbed of that. Squatting and<br />
shitting on the kitchen floor that day, I was like, Wow. There are no flies. There’s no stress.<br />
This is really great. I’m really enjoying this. I knew I’d made an excellent choice, and I was<br />
very proud of myself for making it. I’d reached that moment where I could relax and be with<br />
myself. Then I casually looked around the room and I glanced to my left and there, just a few<br />
feet away, right next to the coal stove, was Koko.<br />
It was like the scene in Jurassic Park when the children turn and the T. rex is right there.<br />
Her eyes were wide open, cloudy white and darting around the room. I knew she couldn’t see<br />
me, but her nose was starting to crinkle—she could sense that something was wrong.<br />
I panicked. I was mid-shit. All you can do when you’re mid-shit is finish shitting. My<br />
only option was to finish as quietly and as slowly as I could, so that’s what I decided to do.<br />
Then: the softest plop of a little-boy turd on the newspaper. Koko’s head snapped toward the<br />
sound.<br />
“Who’s there? Hallo? Hallo?!”<br />
I froze. I held my breath and waited.<br />
“Who’s there?! Hallo?!”<br />
I kept quiet, waited, then started again.<br />
“Is somebody there?! Trevor, is that you?! Frances? Hallo? Hallo?”<br />
She started calling out the whole family. “Nombuyiselo? Sibongile? Mlungisi? Bulelwa?<br />
Who’s there? What’s happening?”<br />
It was like a game, like I was trying to hide and a blind woman was trying to find me