The Dhaarmik Traditions - Indic Studies Foundation

Talambra
In many South Indian marriages the rice mixed with the turmeric is poured over the
heads of groom and bride, by bride and groom. After this there are ceremonies of
name calling singing and other games aimed at the bringing the bride and the groom
closer.
Arundhati Darshan
Arundhathi Darshana is the showing of the Saptha Rishi Mandala and the small star
Arundhathi underneath the star of Vashistha. These seven sages and their families are
the originators of the Vedic Lore of the Hindus. In memoriam of these great sages the
seven stars in the Great Bear constellation are named after them. The significance of
this ritual is to remind the couple of the cosmic responsibilities they have to fulfill.
Darshan of these Great Sages is intended to remind the couple the heritage they have
to carry and the debt to the sages they have to pay.
Dhruva Darshan - Looking at the Polestar
After sunset he shows her the polar star, saying: "You are firm and I see you. Be firm
with me, O nourishing one! Brhaspati has given you to me, so live with me a hundred
years bearing children by me, your husband."
Aashirvaad
The groom's parents bless the couple and offer cloth or flower to the bride (now their
daugher-in-law), symbolizing her joining of the groom's family. All those assembled
shower flowers on the couple and bless them completing the marriage.
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