Complete Idiot's Guide to Conquering Fear and Anxiety

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Page 1PART 1THE HEART OF YOUR FEARS''Fear lent wings to his feet."Virgil, AeneidWho doesn't have strong fears? Of thunderstorms, of snakes, of heights, of the dentist, of the future, of failing, of dying. Fear is an internal alarm system to alert us toharm's way so we can take selfprotection. But some people have powerful fears and anxiety of things or situations that are not immediately dangerous and which takepossession of the person's body, mind, feelings and actions.Part 1 identifies fears, both normal and abnormal, what triggers them and how to know if you or your child has crippling fears that take control of your life.
Page 3Chapter 1Why We FearFears are just for kids, right? Wrong. Everyone feels fear when faced with perceived danger. It helps us to avoid potential peril. Some people are relatively intrepid,others are quickly terrified and sometimes unreasonably soeven those thought to be most courageous.Napoleon Bonaparte set out to conquer the world, but he couldn't conquer his obsession to stop in front of tall buildings and count the windows one by one, a ritual heneeded to quell undue anxiety.Edgar Allen Poe was a famous claustrophobic who used his real life fear of closed spaces in such classic tales as "The Premature Burial" and "The Black Cat."Frederick the Great, King of Prussia, was so afraid of water that he wouldn't wash, and instead forced his servants to wipe his face clean with a dry towel.Today there's John Maddena six foot, four inch, 240pound former football player and head coach of the Oakland Raiders professional football team and, today, awellknown TV sports personality. Once while flying, he experienced a panic attack. He got
Page 3 and 4: THE COMPLETE IDIOT'S REFERENCE CARD
Page 5: Page iConquering Fear and Anxietyby
Page 8 and 9: Page ivCONTENTS AT A GLANCEPart 1:
Page 10 and 11: Page viAGlossaryBFurther Reading an
Page 12 and 13: Page viiiLess Well Known Anxiety an
Page 14 and 15: Page x8The Doctor Is In101Take a Pi
Page 16 and 17: Page xiiRoots of People Allergy 168
Page 18 and 19: Page xivKnead Away Tension 237Don't
Page 20 and 21: Page xvi21After It All Comes Crashi
Page 22 and 23: Page xviiiThe Complete Idiot's Guid
Page 24 and 25: Page xxAcknowledgmentsHeartfelt tha
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Page 42 and 43: Page 18How Long Do They Last?The te
Page 44 and 45: Page 20Claustrophobia (fear of encl
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Page 52 and 53: Page 29Chapter 3Fear TriggersWhat t
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Page 66 and 67: Page 44Fear ListSome Fear Much Fear
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Take the legend of Harry Houdini. F
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Page 57Chapter 5Chasing Away Your C
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Page 617. Initially, take your chil
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Page 63Sevenyearold Nadia stood
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Page 65HelplessnessThe younger you
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Page 67TVHorror movies and televisi
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Page 69PART 2MAKING IT ALL BETTER"T
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Page 72Deep RelaxationMost people t
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The more stressed you feel, the qui
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A host of other things can trigger
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need to be developed again. So, hav
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Page 827. Neck: Pull your head way
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During the day, if you feel tension
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If you find that neither repeating
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Page 88Moreover, since our patterns
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youa parent, a spouse, a child. O
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hit her. When she was eight, she wa
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As with psychoanalytic treatment, h
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Paradoxical intention: In this tech
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Page 98Wearing the goggles (or usin
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Page 101Chapter 8The Doctor Is InAn
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Page 103If you look to the experts,
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similar to a hormone called epineph
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Page 107TricyclicsThese are the old
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Page 109Once fully withdrawn from t
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Dina was chronically stressed and h
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Page 115Chapter 9And There's More..
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Page 117Anxiety and Eating HabitsAr
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Page 119Food Allergies Trigger Anxi
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Page 121Detoxify Your LifeIf you ar
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Page 123In addition to releasing pe
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Page 125Lubricate Your System with
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Page 131Chapter 10Escape from Psych
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increased as the weeks went by and
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Page 135They seek out all night sup
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Sensory defensiveness: You get easi
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Page 139If you employ the selfhel
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Page 1415. Walk (run) into the park
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Page 143Free Your Imprisoned Feelin
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Page 145If you don't have such a "s
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Page 148Fear Is in the AirWhy are s
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and do their crossword puzzle or re
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Page 152Orientation in space impair
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Page 154Mental FlightsOnce you know
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Once you get the knack of it, your
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Page 158Bring along some relaxing e
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Page 161Chapter12Antidote to People
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contact is a sports club, where he
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feel uncomfortable and stop talking
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Page 169by strangers while working
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Page 171And they exaggerate the con
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Page 173Cooling DownSince you are n
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Page 175''I'm happy that you asked
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Come armed with an excuse for your
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Page 180Butterflies Big TimeStage f
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Page 182Eyes of the Past on YouSir
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Page 184SelfPerceptions:How much
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Breathing Exercises: Do your deep b
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Page 1881. Overgeneralization: You'
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Page 190Public speakingFear: I will
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Page 192Show TimeWhat should you do
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Page 194Doomed Before You StartDo y
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The same need for perfection happen
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Page 198Talent can, however, overco
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Page 200I'll Never Beat This Perfor
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Page 202Learned HelplessnessAfter a
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Page 204Destructive thought: Even i
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5. Give yourself lead way: The more
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for your math test but it's ten o'c
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Page 211PART 4ANXIETY...PANIC... OB
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Page 214foods. When she did, the sa
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Page 2162. A panic attack will not
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Page 218Were you alone or with some
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Page 222Catch Your Panic Before It
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Page 2241. If you can, leave the si
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He's been a nervous type for as lon
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Page 230Roots of High AnxietyDid yo
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Page 232A critical, angry parent: T
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in danger and take immediate self
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Page 236Defusing the Panic ButtonTh
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Page 238CranioSacral Therapy: Throu
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Page 240Can't Relax!So, you've done
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Relaxation techniques and drugs, th
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Page 244Get plenty of fresh air and
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Page 247Chapter 17Avoiding Sidewalk
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or greater awareness. And there may
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Page 251Common Obsessions:Contamina
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After reading this chapter, you mig
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The first hints that OCD was a biol
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Page 257Other Ways to Steady the Ti
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Page 260Unimaginable Real FearFor t
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Page 262You relive the event daily
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Though more men are exposed to trau
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The few days following the trauma a
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Page 268Something about the eye mov
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Page 271PART 5CHILDHOOD FEARS"Mommy
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he won't disappear down the bathtub
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anxieties, and obsessions and compu
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Page 278Who's in Charge? Nature or
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Of all childhood memories, few are
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She will now feel that she has to h
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Page 286Just the FactsChildren can
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Page 288Avoid "Sink or Swim"Don't f
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Page 293Chapter 20No More "I Don't
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comfort, and protection evokes a de
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parents will argue if he's not arou
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Page 299It's Okay to Be AfraidAlway
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Page 301One Day at a TimeIf your ch
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When he was four, his mother told h
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Page 308Childhood HorrorsAll childh
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It is a premature introduction to s
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mansion, the sight of injured or de
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Page 314These fantasies and distort
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Page 316Old Enough to Imagine and U
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Page 318DepressionFlight into prema
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Page 320When You Need Help to Put Y
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Page 322When No One Listens!Sixteen
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confusion and protect them. They wa
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Page 326It's important that you don
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The most distressing situation is g
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them with that which gets the smile
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Back Off: Don't pressure your kids
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Page 335APPENDIX AGLOSSARYAcrophobi
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Psychodynamic TherapyA type of ps
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Page 340Diet and NutritionAirola, P
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Page 342Childhood Anxiety Disorders
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Page 344Obsessive Compulsive Founda
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Page 346Allen, Woody (screen writer
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Page 348Hypoglycemia: A Better Appr
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Page 350connectedness, importance,
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Page 352goalsettingagoraphobia (f
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Page 356hormonal imbalances, 31hype
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Page 358cognitive therapy, 9697dr
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Page 360substances/foods to avoid,
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Page 362Wwalking, aerobic exercises
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