Page 354menagoraphobia (fear of open spaces), 22generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), 24panic attacks, 17messages, 125mimics (of)anxiety/panic attacksdrug abuse, 3334drug overuse, 33fluorescent lights, 3839hormonal imbalances, 31hyperthyroidism, 31hyperventilation, 30hypoglycemia, 31inner ear problems, 3436mitral valve prolapse, 31nonprescription medication, 33poor diet, 3637prescription drugs, 32<strong>to</strong>xic chemicals, 38warm weather, 3941illnesses, stress, 4041mineralsanxiety treatments, 119120books, 121sero<strong>to</strong>nin levels, boosting, 120mitral valve prolapseanxiety/panic mimics, 31Monoamine Oxidase Inhibi<strong>to</strong>rs (MAOIs)anxiety disorder medications, 105side effects, 107108Monsters under the Bed <strong>and</strong> Other Childhood <strong>Fear</strong>s, 286movieschildhood fears, 285vs. fairy tales, 285NNapoleon Bonaparte, 3National Organization for Seasonal Affective Disorder (NOSAD), 244nature (outdoors)natural disasters, 311thunders<strong>to</strong>rms, 286nature/nurture relationship, 4753cerebellarvestibular system (CVS) stimulation, 5253childhood fearsnaturalborn tendencies, 6364, 278nurture tendencies, 64dangerous attachments, 51generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), 230, 230232insecure anxious ambivalent attachments, 4849insecure anxious avoidant attachments, 4950overcoming fears, 5354secure attachments, 48separation anxiety disorder (SAD), 295297stressful situations, 5152neurolinguistic programming (NLP), 98neurotransmitters, 104norepinephrine, 104sero<strong>to</strong>nin, 104The New York Times Parent's <strong>Guide</strong> <strong>to</strong> the Best Books for Children, 285nicotine, foods/substances <strong>to</strong> avoid, 116night terrors, 275nightmares, 275NLP (neurolinguistic programming), 98No More <strong>Fear</strong>s, 121, 139No More <strong>Fear</strong>s, How <strong>to</strong> Free Yourself from Disabling <strong>and</strong> Unreasonable Panic with a Simple, New Program of Nutritional Supplements, 36nonprescription medication, anxiety/panic mimics, 33noradrenergic system, brain chemistry/function, 104norepinephrine (neurotransmitter), 104normal fears, 6nutrition, poor diet, 3637nurture/nature relationship, 4753cerebellarvestibular system (CVS) stimulation, 5253childhood fearsnaturalborn tendencies, 6364, 278nurture tendencies, 64dangerous attachments, 51generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), 230, 230232insecure anxious ambivalent attachments, 4849insecure anxious avoidant attachments, 4950overcoming fears, 5354secure attachments, 48separation anxiety disorder (SAD), 295297stressful situations, 5152
Page 355Oobsessions, common obsessions, 250251obsessivecompulsive disorder (OCD), 2526, 248age of onset, 248As Good As It Gets (movie), 25biological fac<strong>to</strong>rs, 255Bonaparte, Napoleon, 3Bunyan, John, 252children, 276compulsionscommon compulsions, 251examples, 2526examples, 25Luther, Martin, 252M<strong>and</strong>el, Howie, 249nature of, 250obsessionsexamples, 25obsessions, common obsessions, 250251physical causes, 30Satie, Eric (composer), 249symp<strong>to</strong>ms, 250, 253theories, 254256treatments, 255, 257cognitivebehavioral therapy, 256medications, 256vs. anal retentive, 252vs. superstitious, 249Of Two Minds, 97Olivier, Sir Laurence (ac<strong>to</strong>r) 22, 182183open spaces, fear of (agoraphobia), 2122, 131136avoided situations, 22, 134135biological fac<strong>to</strong>rs, 136137bright lights <strong>and</strong> agoraphobics, 139depression, 135drug abuse, 135food allergies, 139life modifications, 134135marijuana, 137men/women, 22panic attacks, 133psychological fac<strong>to</strong>rs, 137separation anxiety, 138severity levels, 135138teenagers, 322323treatments, 97, 138145cognitivebehavior theory, 141142drug therapy, 145EMDR, 97exercise, 138139expressing negative feelings, 143144goalsetting, 140141increasing selfworth, 144relaxation training, 138139support from people, 144145operant conditioning childhood fears, 66optimistsbiological fac<strong>to</strong>rs, 202success <strong>and</strong> attitude, 194o<strong>to</strong>laryngologists (ENT), inner ear problems, 36The OutofSync Child, 299overcoming fears, 10childhood fears, 283dentists, 286287dispelling misconceptions, 286dogs, 288289fairy tales vs. movies, 285overprotecting children, 284285parents' guidelines, 283responding appropriately, 284school phobia, 298, 300301separation anxiety disorder (SAD), 298strangers, 289taking seriously, 283284thunders<strong>to</strong>rms, 286water, 287first steps, 54nature/nurture relationships, 5354overprotecting children, childhood fears, 284285Ppanic, 7panic attacks, 5, 213217agoraphobia (fear of open spaces), 133biological fac<strong>to</strong>rs, 104books, 30, 38bullimics, 104causes, 18, 217218criteria for panic disorder, 218219duration, 1827environmental fac<strong>to</strong>rs, 121exercise, 124following the attacks, 18frequency, 1727identifying anxiety levels, 222224illness mimics, 4041intervention, 154, 224225men vs. women, 17mimicsdrug abuse, 3334drug overuse, 33fluorescent lights, 3839
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THE COMPLETE IDIOT'S REFERENCE CARD
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Page iConquering Fear and Anxietyby
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Page viAGlossaryBFurther Reading an
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Page x8The Doctor Is In101Take a Pi
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Page 1PART 1THE HEART OF YOUR FEARS
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