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About the Authors DaSSIE EASTON is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in alternative sexualities and relationships, with twenty years of experience counseling open relationships. She is the author of four other books. She has been an ethical slut since 1969. Visit www.dossieeaston.com. JANET W. HARDY is the author of more than 10 books and founder of Greenery Press, a San Francisco Bay Area book publisher specializing in sexually adventurous books. She has an MFA in creative writing from St. Mary's College. She swore off monogamy in 1987. Visit www.janetwhardy.com. Dossie and Janet have authored several other books, available from Greenery Press. When Someone You Love Is Kinky is for the friends, family, coworkers, and partners of anyone who's involved in an alternative sexuality like S/M, DIS, leather, crossdressing, or fetish. (Note: Janet wrote this book under her former pen name, "Catherine A. Liszt.") The New Bottoming Book and The New Topping Book show how to bring all your power, sexiness, and smarts to your role as a BDSM bottom or top. 287
THE <strong>ETHICAL</strong> SLUT Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence chronicles Dossie's and janet's individual and mutual experiences with altered states of consciousness during BDSM play and offers some ideas drawn from tantra and other practices about how to journey there yourself. Janet is also the author of several other books: The Sexually Dominant Woman and Th e Compleat Spanker (both written as "Lady Green"), Th e Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning, Twenty-First Century Kinky Crafts, and (with Dr. Charles Moser) Sex Disasters . .. And How to Survive Them. 288
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THE ETHICAL A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO PO
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Acknowledgments vii Contents PART O
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Acknowledgments We'd like to thank:
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CHAPTER ONE Who Is an Ethical Slut?
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Who Is an Ethical Slut? a slut. She
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Who Is an Ethical Slut? to be, we c
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CHAPTER TWO Myths and Realities THO
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Myths and Realities business; they
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Myths and Realities Religion, we th
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Myths and Realities that we have he
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Myths and Real ities Being treated
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My ths and Realities really in love
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Our Bel iefs collaboration for the
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Our Beliefs Denial vs. Fulfillment
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Our Beliefs Yo u Are Already Whole
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CHAPTER FOUR Slut Styles ETHICAL SL
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Slut Styles THE LOVE GENERATION Dos
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Slut Styles or female, or what it m
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Slut Styles one in between. The bis
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Slut Styles small town in New Engla
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C H APTER FIVE Battling Sex Negativ
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Bottling Sex Negativity Ex-spouses,
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Bat tling Sex Negativity We have ne
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Infinite possibilities Similarly, p
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Infinite Possibilities and it worke
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Infinite Possibilities and keep agr
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PA RT TWO The Practice of Sluthood
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Abundance hunger (if you didn't gra
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Abundance breakfast together the ne
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Abundance Erections may come and go
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CHAPTER EIGHT Slut Skills GREAT SLU
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Slut Skills Earning Your Slut Merit
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Slut Skills wonder if you are welco
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Slut Skills OWNING YOUR FEELINGS A
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C H APTER N I N E Boundaries MANY P
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Boundaries is and what exactly they
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Boundaries when in fact you are thi
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Boundaries My open sexual lifestyle
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Interlude: The Unethical Slut (A Ra
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Interlude: The Unethical Slut (A Ra
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Flirting and Cruising concern for a
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Flirting and Cruising The Fine Art
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Flirting and Cruising some point, t
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Flirting and Cruising FOR COUPLES S
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Flirting and Cruising A good conver
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Keeping Sex Safe research and recom
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Keeping Sex Safe don't reliably sho
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Keeping Sex Safe getting sick. You'
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Keeping Sex Safe You won't like tal
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THE ETHICAL SLUT the new people who
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Childrearing equally ill-informed o
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Childrearing It's also fine to test
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PA RT THREE Navigati ng Challeng es
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Roadmaps through Jealousy and Wedne
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Roadmaps through Jealousy none of t
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Roadmaps through Jealousy This is w
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Roadmaps through Jealousy lovers, a
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Roadmaps through Jealousy when you
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Roadmaps through Jealousy You can f
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Roadmaps through Jealousy FEEL YOUR
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Roadmaps through Jealousy "poor bab
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Roadmaps through Jealousy with migh
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Roadmaps thro ugh Jealousy and stud
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Roadmaps through Jealousy protect y
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I N TERLU D E Clean love CAN YOU IM
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CHAPTER FOUR TEE N Embracing Confli
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Embracing Conflict Once you underst
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Embracing Conflict its greatest ext
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Embracing Conflict do it, go for it
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Embracing Conflict there is no accu
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Embracing Conflict listeners will o
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Embracing Conflict When you return
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Embracing Conflict to share lots an
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Making Agreements wrong way to run
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Making Ag reements simply know that
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Making Ag reements step. We think t
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Making Agreements • Other partner
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Making Agreements When you discover
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Making Agreements tell that your ag
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Opening an Existing Relationship Fo
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Opening an Existing Relationship co
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Opening an Existing Relationship It
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Opening an Existing Relati onship t
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Opening an Existing Relationship ag
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Opening an Existing Relationship wa
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Opening an Existing Relationship up
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Opening an Existing Relationship ma
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Opening an Existing Relationship To
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Opening an Existing Relationship IN
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C H APTER SEVENTE E N Making Connec
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THE ETHICAL SLUT like them, you wil
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THE ETHICAL SLUT to get to know peo
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THE ETHICAL SLUT Attend some worksh
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C H APT E R E I G H T E E N Couples
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THE ETHICAL SLUT We have learned th
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THE ETHICAL SLUT times. When school
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THE ETHICAL SLUT If marriage is sac
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THE ETHICAL SLUT Many people new to
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THE ETHICAL SLUT might want to exam
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THE ETHICAL SLUT remember one night
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THE ETHICAL SLUT people will not co
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THE ETHICAL SLUT make sure to stay
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THE ETHICAL SLUT If you have a hard
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THE ETHICAL SLUT • You have the r
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THE ETHICAL SLUT precious and valua
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THE ETHICAL SLUT people may be happ
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THE ETH ICAL SLUT and grew together
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C H APTER TWENTY The Ebb and Flow o
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THE ETHICAL SLUT relationship and d
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THE ETHICAL SLUT All the rules that
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THE ETHICAL SLUT issues, like domes
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C H APTER TWE N TY-ON E Sex and Ple
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THE ETHICAL SLUT all sensual stimul
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THE ETHICAL SLUT SEX-N EGATIVE CULT
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THE ETHICAL SLUT Don't forget the a
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THE ETHICAL SLUT hand strays in vag
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