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FEBRUARY 28<br />
RESENTMENT<br />
“And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.”<br />
(Mt 6:12, from the Lord’s Prayer)<br />
I have heard many people say that when they try to pray, they feel there’s<br />
some invisible wall between them and God; as if the prayer doesn’t “get<br />
through.” This state of affairs can last for many years, or just happen<br />
sometimes, on occasion. When it happens to me, I am reminded of this<br />
verse in the Lord’s Prayer, which points me to the most obvious culprit in<br />
my predicament: resentment.<br />
That is to say, I might be (perhaps quietly) clinging onto some wrong<br />
done against me, either by my own self, or some other person or group<br />
of people, or close family, or some institution, like my workplace, my<br />
government, or even my church. Resentments often go way back, even<br />
though recent incidents trigger old feelings of frustration, neglect, hurt,<br />
etc. It is important for me to take some time and “clean my house” of<br />
any resentments, letting go of the delusion that somehow, through my<br />
resentment, I achieve the “justice” I deserve. Because I “know” I’m right,<br />
you see. This sense of “justice,” bred in resentment, eats away not only at<br />
my human relationships, but prevents my communion with God. I can’t<br />
even pray the Lord’s Prayer honestly, while clinging to resentment.<br />
So let me look to God’s justice and His grace to help me forgive myself<br />
and others. Because when I say “Our Father,” rather than “My Father,” I<br />
am reminded that He forgives me as well as others, time and again. And<br />
this He does, over and over again, although He knows He was right, when<br />
we were wrong. He is free from holding grudges, and wants us to be free,<br />
like Him.<br />
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