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MARCH 27<br />
CHASTITY vs. “WHOLE-MINDEDNESS”<br />
“Grant me, Your servant, the spirit of chastity (σωφροσύνη, tselomudrie,<br />
whole-mindedness), humility, patience and love.” (Prayer of St. Ephraim,<br />
part 2)<br />
The Greek word “σωφροσύνη” is often translated as “chastity,” which, like<br />
the Slavonic word “chistota,” tends to make us think of total abstinence,<br />
a full stop to sexuality. It thus tends to isolate or even ban all issues of<br />
sexuality from the full picture of our “spiritual” journey. But the word<br />
“σωφροσύνη” means much more, which is why its proper Slavonic<br />
translation is helpful: in Slavonic, the word is translated as “tselomudrie,”<br />
which literally means “whole-mindedness.” This word places issues of<br />
sexuality where they belong: within the full picture of our journey to<br />
salvation.<br />
Issues of sexuality become problematic and “sinful” precisely when they<br />
take on a life of their own, separate from our “whole-minded” approach<br />
to God. After all, God knows about this side of our humanity, because He<br />
created it, as one of His gifts. So sexual issues, including inappropriate<br />
sexual desire, need to be placed before God, handed over to God, and<br />
discerned, like anything else, in light of other gifts of the Holy Spirit, like<br />
love, faith, patience, gratitude, and humility.<br />
Let us pose the appropriate questions to ourselves in this area, so it’s not<br />
living a life of its own: Have we let self-seeking, dishonesty, lust, powerhungriness,<br />
sheer boredom, and so on, distort our sexual conduct? Have<br />
we put ourselves first and disrespected others? Or have we disrespected<br />
ourselves in these matters?<br />
Let me shed His light also on this area of life, in a “whole-minded” manner,<br />
and let His loving grace guide my approach to it.<br />
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