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KIDS TEACH DAD HOW TO LOVE

On the surface, Martyka Brandt is an anomaly. Marty —

aka Skin or Mad Marty — was a member of the Christchurch

Mongrel Mob in 1975 and a founding member of

Mighty Mongrel Mob Aotearoa in Christchurch, 1979.

(The Aotearoa Mighty Mongrel Mob chapter was founded

a year earlier in 1978 by Gypsy in the North Island).

Marty’s a Pakeha with Hungarian heritage, he gave up

the booze and drugs years ago and he’s still a patched

Mob member. “I used to drink every day and all night

until I got my kids but I stopped for them, and haven’t

had a drink since”, he says.

Living in Maraenui in the mid-80s at the time, Marty

gave up his signwriting business and speedway racing

to be the main caregiver to his four children. “Even

though she tried, the mother of three of my kids couldn’t

let go of drugs and alcohol so I became a solo dad. Social

Welfare gave me the children and never checked in

on me. I had to do everything myself but I found it all

common sense really”.

Marty’s the first to say that his kids saved him as a

person and in the process of parenting, he discovered

he was a natural, and applied through CYPS and Open

Home Foundation in Hastings to look after six more children.

To have the best chance of raising his kids in a healthy

environment Marty shifted the family to Tamatea. They

moved into a four-bedroom Housing NZ property which

was their home base for 19 years and for a time Marty

served on the board of trustees at the local school. “At

the time Tamatea had a different life-style than the Nui

and I wanted the kids away from the party scene, as well

as myself. I managed to keep my kids away from drugs

and alcohol and bring them up with the right morals. To

give your kids a chance to survive, you have to. I’ve always

wanted to write a book and I’d call it Turning Point,

because at a certain point that’s it — you go one way

or the other. Any kid will want to experiment but if the

morals are there they’ll come through. My kids made the

right choices and they’re in Oz now earning big money,”

says one proud father.

Back in 2013 Marty’s parenting skills were so wellknown

he was asked to run a programme for DOVE

Hawke’s Bay Family Violence Protection for a year or

so. “Initially the police or iwi wouldn’t let us put the brochures

in their windows but when they saw how successful

the programme was they got on board.”

Moving back to Maraenui seven years ago Marty’s

feeling proud and excited about the positive things going

on there now. “Media never picks up on the positives,

they always focus on the negatives. In terms of the Mongrel

Mob a lot more of the members are working, they’re

into fitness, going to the gym and they have two rugby

league teams that are doing well. A few have come off

P, some by themselves and some through initiatives. It’s

slow change but things are definitely changing.”

Whanau Transformation Wananga is one of the initiatives

Marty’s referring to and it’s turning lives around.

(See page 104.) The first wananga was held for 40 people

in November last year at Te Oranga Pumanawa in

Maraenui and a second course for another 40 people

was held at Waiohiki. The buzz around its impact is all

over the ‘Nui.

“My Bro’s who’ve done the course were taught using

Māori values and they’ve done wonders coming off P.

They were skinny as anything and now they’re into fitness.

They’re role models for others — it’s incredible”.

In the top left picture, inset, Marty and his three sisters, top right inset, daughter Tania-Marie, main photo, with Marty from left

are his children, Tynesha-Marika, Nikita and Martika; middle, Marty, Pat and granddaughter Jerri Magill catch up at The Pie Man,

Maraenui; Marty at a Mongrel Mob Christmas party for the tamariki at Eskdale Park.

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Maraenui – by whānau for whānau, anything is possible

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