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In the same year the head of the course, Bojana Christova, who was<br />

the first visit<strong>in</strong>g nurse <strong>in</strong> Bulgaria, elaborated some rules concern<strong>in</strong>g how to<br />

proceed <strong>in</strong> home visits, which could be used as a case study for students. Her<br />

advice, which regulated cloth<strong>in</strong>g, speech and behaviour on home visits, was<br />

based on her own experience: 14<br />

Personality, tone of speech and proper <strong>in</strong>struction are all preconditions for the success<br />

of a visit<strong>in</strong>g nurse.<br />

Have a smart outlook. A nurse dressed <strong>in</strong> a uniform will have more authority over<br />

mothers, more so than if she is dressed <strong>in</strong> colourful cloth<strong>in</strong>g with ….earr<strong>in</strong>gs, r<strong>in</strong>gs<br />

and suchlike …<br />

Be honest <strong>in</strong> what you are say<strong>in</strong>g. Indifference will not attract the mother’s attention.<br />

Be careful and tactful <strong>in</strong> your activities and logical <strong>in</strong> your speech.<br />

It is important to select the material you will speak about, and to plan your activity.<br />

The time for speak<strong>in</strong>g depends on the necessity.<br />

Do not leave until you have been <strong>in</strong> the visited home for at least fifteen m<strong>in</strong>utes. Even<br />

<strong>in</strong> the most tidy home, you will f<strong>in</strong>d someth<strong>in</strong>g to say.<br />

The good nurse adjusts to the situation and gives advice that can be implemented.<br />

Do not forget that every <strong>in</strong>dividual has to be treated separately.<br />

Be <strong>in</strong>terested <strong>in</strong> the personal life of the mother. Do not forget to ask questions about<br />

others members of the family. Be a friend to the mother but do not allow her to speak<br />

about other mothers.<br />

Speak<strong>in</strong>g with her, do not criticise the woman next door. Do not give occasion to<br />

speak about her.<br />

Do show your empathy to a mother but also educate her to bear her dest<strong>in</strong>y without<br />

protest.<br />

Let her problems be expressed. Do search for the reasons, calm her and encourage her.<br />

Do not promise f<strong>in</strong>ancial help if you know that we are unable to give it.<br />

Your k<strong>in</strong>d behaviour is able to remove any transgression and to <strong>in</strong>spire <strong>in</strong> the mothers<br />

hope and belief <strong>in</strong> you.<br />

Be careful and conciliatory, but also demand<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

14<br />

See Bojana Christova, “Saveti kum sestrite posetitelki” (Advice to visit<strong>in</strong>g nurses), Sestra, (V.2, 1926,): 28<br />

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