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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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characteristics. It is general in nature, perpetual, repetitive and provides no discernable relief (at least<br />

not instantaneously). <strong>The</strong> context, meaning high or low stress environment provides strong clues to the<br />

purpose of the adaptors. All proper body language reads should take context into consideration.<br />

As we see, movements or adaptors come in two forms. <strong>The</strong>y either have hidden meaning, or they do<br />

not. Plenty of emphasis has been given by researchers on these subconscious clues on the grounds that<br />

they would unlock secrets. However, the importance placed on adaptors is probably overstated and<br />

oversimplified. <strong>The</strong> real goal of the body language reader is to decipher the difference between<br />

adaptors with no meaning and movements and gestures that have actual meaning. Adaptors in crosscultural<br />

meetings can also be potential landmines. For example, emblems, specifically because they are<br />

culturally engrained, are emitted without conscious thought. Many Arabic countries see the sole of the<br />

foot or the figure-four-leg cross as offensive and rude (an emblem of sorts to them) so they may<br />

classify a Westerner as something they intent not to be. It is clear to the Westerner that they wish only<br />

to take up a more comfortable seating position. <strong>The</strong> take-away message is to treat adaptors with the<br />

care they deserve instead of jumping to inaccurate, embarrassing or even disastrous conclusions.

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