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Chapter 5 – Seeing Eye To Eye – A Look At <strong>The</strong> <strong>Language</strong> Of <strong>The</strong> Eye<br />

How To Avoid An Attack Or Speeding Ticket<br />

A backward facing cap with open body language means ticket all day long.<br />

If you wish to avoid an attack, quickly avert your eyes, pull your head and chin down and draw your<br />

shoulders and body inward to make it appear smaller. Submissive postures, like this one, switches off<br />

the aggressive attack response in other people. A large part of what provides motivation for those in<br />

power, is the power itself and it has been said that those in positions of power want nothing else but<br />

more power. So to avoid an attack all we need to do is give them that power, ideally it is in the form of<br />

less physical methods. Taking up a submissive posture and admitting guilt is usually enough of a payoff<br />

to avoid a speeding ticket at best, or at worst, lessening the amount of punishment that will be received.<br />

If asked to step out of the vehicle, keep slouched so as to never reach your full height and don’t<br />

completely avoid eye contact, but don’t stare either. Keep reserved, hold your arms and hands across<br />

your mid section or in your pockets, but never cross your arms in effort to confront.

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