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flash it lasts on average for only 0.75 seconds but is easily perceived and is quite obvious. <strong>The</strong> eye<br />

flash is a momentary widening of the eyelids during a conversation to reveal the sclera, or whites of the<br />

eyes, with no involvement of the eyelids. Humans are the only primates that have whites around their<br />

eyes whereas other ape’s eyes are completely dark. It has been theorized that the whites of the eyes<br />

evolved as a means of communication helping indicate eye direction.<br />

<strong>The</strong> eyeflash when given by a speaker, emphasizes specific words being spoken. <strong>The</strong> eyeflash can<br />

serve to change the meaning of a given word or phrase by putting emphasis on one word over another.<br />

It normally accompanies adjectives rather than any other parts of speech, and women use it more often<br />

them men. I did however notice Brad Pitt perform the eyeflash repeatedly while in a speaking scene in<br />

a movie. I’m not sure exactly sure what his intent of the flash entailed, as it accompanied no talking<br />

and it occurred once every few seconds while listening, and to me, it seemed odd. Never-the- less he<br />

must have thought it added emphasized to his part in the scene. Of note is when eyebrows start and stop<br />

flashing as they indicate attachment and excitement with whatever content is being presented. If eyes<br />

suddenly stop flashing then it’s likely that a person is lacking in enthusiasms and commitment for the<br />

topic at hand. <strong>The</strong> eyeflash is also association with raised eyebrows to signal submission. Lowering the<br />

eyebrows of course, signals the opposite, that is dominance.<br />

On the other hand, a loving mother will widen her eyes when viewing her newborn baby indicating that<br />

she cares for them and within seventy-two hours of birth her child will do the same when she enters the<br />

room. Eye widening is a positive nonverbal cue indicating that someone is observing positive stimuli<br />

that bring them joy and happiness. Eye widening is another form of gravity defying behaviour that is<br />

ubiquitous in showing positive emotions and joy. When true contentment is present the eyes will lack<br />

any tension at all and will appear relaxed. <strong>The</strong> size of the eyes directly indicates how positive someone<br />

is about a topic. While making eyes bigger and flashing them means that good thoughts are held,<br />

squinting where the eyes are compressed means negative thought are held. <strong>The</strong> same goes for lowered<br />

eyebrows!<br />

<strong>The</strong> final eye cue is flashbulb eyes, which is done by dramatically opening the eyes as big and wide as<br />

possible. <strong>The</strong> eyebrows usually arch in unison as well to make the eyes appear even larger. <strong>The</strong> cue is<br />

usually done to indicate surprise and positive emotions such as being excited to see someone, or have<br />

been given a promotion.<br />

[help! - Brad Pitt’s filmology shows over sixty movies and I can’t figure out which movie he was in<br />

when he did the eye flash. I do recall it was an older movie and don’t think he was actively speaking at<br />

the time, more listening, and in an alley/dark area of some sort. If you know the movie send it my<br />

way!]

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