The Ultimate Body Language Book

killer for women. Men should avoid getting overly excited, but should also not be afraid to liven speech
with gestures and some changes in pitch, to show that they have a pulse, and that their life is at least
somewhat exciting. If men find themselves in conversation with an unwilling participant, they should
change gears or change partners, this is what makes body language so powerful, since it eliminates the
need to second guess interest. Having read the cues to sexual interest at the beginning of this chapter
along with interest in general covered throughout the book, it should be plainly obvious what others are
thinking about you.
Chapter 13 - Courtship Signals
Smiling And Gazing Advice For Men
A worried facial expression wont lead to positive outcomes! Try a relaxed, confident smile instead.
Smiles mean a lot more than just happiness, such as fear and stress. However, smiles due tend to appear
most from happiness, and as a result of genuine feelings of optimism. They also indicate confidence
and hopefulness. We know that smiles are infectious, yet men hardly ever sport them. I suppose men’s
lack of smiles has to do with the vast amount of testosterone that courses through their bodies, coupled
with the fear of appearing subordinate to others, but men should not let that be a deterrent. If men walk
through life with a big grin, people will notice and stop them, wondering what good news they hold, or
what successes they have achieved.
Laughter and smiles, when done by men, show women that they have interesting and successful lives.
Men can easily try a smile experiment to measure the exact value it has, and they’ll know they’re onto
something when they receive smiles in return. While it is true that some smiles won’t be well received,
be they ignored or returned with a grimace, it shouldn’t deter the smile experiment from continuing.
The object isn’t to impress everyone, rather it is to plan seeds in the minds of others that you are
friendly, open to conversation, and that good things happen to you, and that if they associate with you,
these good things might benefit them too.