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To be NORMAL isn’t Christian just because 95% of<br />
your community is Christian.<br />
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To be NORMAL isn’t to be attracted to someone of<br />
the opposite sex just because 90% of the general<br />
population is heterosexual.<br />
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Even during the time of the notebook’s unknown<br />
author, to be NORMAL isn’t to own slaves just<br />
because all the landowners in your region are slave<br />
owners.<br />
Nor can NORMAL mean free of discomfort. If NORMAL<br />
were the equivalent of a <strong>life</strong> free of emotional pain, then<br />
you must be abnormal if you make a mistake or slip as I<br />
did… the truth is, it just makes you, human.<br />
This, however, is exactly the game played by many in the<br />
mental health industry. In the eyes of the social worker<br />
who evaluated <strong>my</strong> story of loss, misdirection and a<br />
profound spiritual experience, I expressed <strong>my</strong> feelings of<br />
discomfort and was labeled abnormal in his mind as he<br />
observed me. He equated abnormal with unwanted, and<br />
turning "I don't want to feel sad" into "I have a mental<br />
disorder and suffer from depression, paranoia and<br />
hallucinations."<br />
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