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RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE

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forced to admit his choice to belong to his mother as a lover<br />

who will never replace her with anybody else: "'No mother —<br />

I really don't love her.<br />

I talk to her, but I want to come home<br />

to you'" (p.261).<br />

The scene that follows is one of bitter<br />

revelation of Mrs Morel's total identification with Miriam.<br />

admits that she "'could let another woman — but not her.<br />

She<br />

She'd<br />

leave me no room, not a bit of room — '" (ibid). Moreover, she<br />

implicitly declares her love for Paul as one she would give to a<br />

husband:<br />

I've never — you know, Paul — I've never had a<br />

husband — not really — '" (p.262). I believe that this<br />

revelation makes Mrs Morel even worse than she has hitherto<br />

appeared and it seems that Lawrence here is not really setting<br />

out to deliberately show the mother's evil side.<br />

It just slips<br />

out of him.<br />

That night, when Paul and his mother give themselves to a<br />

set of declarations, the father comes home drunk and takes a<br />

piece of pork-pie which is destined for Paul.<br />

Mrs Morel mistreats<br />

Walter who starts arguing with the mother.<br />

Paul interferes and<br />

decides to fight with his father.<br />

Had Mrs Morel not had a faint<br />

(her health is declining), son and father would certainly hit<br />

each other.<br />

Paul's words to his mother as she recovers sound not<br />

like a son talking to a mother but like a lover who is extremely<br />

jealous of his sweetheart going to bed with a rival:<br />

'Sleep with Annie, Mother, not with him.'<br />

'No, I'll sleep in my own bed.'<br />

'Don't sleep with him, Mother.'<br />

'I'll sleep in my own bed.' (p.264)<br />

When Paul goes to his own bed, he is tormented: "He pressed his<br />

face upon the pillow in a fury of misery.<br />

And somewhere in his<br />

soul, he was at peace because he still loved his mother best.<br />

It<br />

was the bitter peace of resignation" (ibid).<br />

His feelings once

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