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emmanuel reynaud holy virility the social construction of masculinity

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Whatever <strong>the</strong> truth about <strong>the</strong> origins <strong>of</strong> patriarchy, since it has<br />

been established, human history has been that <strong>of</strong> a fundamental<br />

division which has created and conditioned all <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>rs: <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>social</strong> distinction between men and women. Today, now that it<br />

is so highly developed that we have been brought face to face<br />

with <strong>the</strong> question <strong>of</strong> its origin, it is not a matter <strong>of</strong> reinforcing<br />

<strong>the</strong> sex division, but <strong>of</strong> abolishing it: <strong>of</strong> unmasking images<br />

which disguise power relations. Reappraising an<br />

underestimated 'femininity' and reassessing a wrongly<br />

evaluated '<strong>virility</strong>' will not make any difference to oppression:<br />

our lives are not governed by values which each one <strong>of</strong> us can<br />

modify as we please to escape <strong>the</strong> oppressive reality; <strong>the</strong>y are<br />

ruled by ideologies, institutions and modes <strong>of</strong> production which<br />

patriarchy secretes all over <strong>the</strong> globe.<br />

When it comes to abolishing patriarchy <strong>the</strong> problem for men is<br />

not for <strong>the</strong>m to create a 'new man', but, on <strong>the</strong> contrary, to<br />

destroy that 'man' from whom, as males, we have ALL been<br />

created, and who, in one way or ano<strong>the</strong>r, we have ALL<br />

reproduced. It is to that process <strong>of</strong> destruction that I hope to<br />

contribute by describing men's attitudes to <strong>the</strong>ir body, <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

penis, sexuality and relationships with women and o<strong>the</strong>r men.<br />

As for <strong>the</strong> question which worries some men ―knowing what a<br />

male who is not a 'man' could be: each man can discover that<br />

for himself in a variety <strong>of</strong> pleasures available when one is<br />

relieved <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> burden <strong>of</strong> fitting into a category. It would,<br />

however, be an act <strong>of</strong> deception to divorce this issue from <strong>the</strong><br />

fact that as men within patriarchy we are, whe<strong>the</strong>r we want it or<br />

not, <strong>the</strong> embodiment <strong>of</strong> power.

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