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the other wife traveled with the husband. The woman who didn’t have children was<br />

advised that they shouldn’t be together if they were going to be unhappy. If the man<br />

wasn’t going to treat both of his wives equally, he was told that he shouldn’t have two<br />

wives. A husband and a wife used to swap their mates with another couple, and the<br />

women would be told that they shouldn’t be jealous of each other. The men were told<br />

that they could not get angry at each other. Even if they swapped wives, they were not<br />

to have hard feelings towards each other. They had to agree that they would not fight.<br />

Maybe this fellow (Paniaq) might be able to give you more information, as we did not<br />

live in the same area. He is from the Iglulik area, so maybe he was more exposed to this<br />

lifestyle than I was and probably lived through that generation of wife swappers. People<br />

from the Mittimatalik area were exposed to Christianity before Iglulik people were.<br />

Paniaq: My late grandfather Ittuksaarjuat was reported to have had two wives. I know<br />

of one wife he had, but I do not know much about the other one he had at the same time.<br />

He had stopped being with her before she died.<br />

He didn’t abandon her?<br />

Paniaq: He didn’t just abandon her. He still provided for her and left children with her<br />

when we needed someone to look after the children while we went out on the land. I<br />

was too young, so I can’t really tell a story about her. I know that if a woman didn’t have<br />

a provider, a man would take her for a second wife so he could provide for her. That’s<br />

how it used to be. I don’t know. Probably they didn’t want to just abandon those who<br />

did not have a provider, so that’s how they used to take a second wife. He’d take her<br />

and be intimate without keeping it a secret from anyone.<br />

Were women allowed to take two husbands as well?<br />

Paniaq: Yes, I’ve heard of that, but I cannot really tell a story about it.<br />

How about you, have you heard of that? Were women allowed to have<br />

two husbands?<br />

Elisapee: I don’t know. I have never really heard of that. The only thing I have heard of<br />

is wife swapping. I have never really heard of a woman with two husbands. I have<br />

heard that’s how it used to be too. There would be one woman with two husbands,<br />

without keeping it a secret either.<br />

They would all sleep together?<br />

Elisapee: No, that’s not how it was. She would have two husbands, but they would not<br />

be there at the same time. I have heard about a man with two wives. I lived through that<br />

38 <strong>Introduction</strong> to the Oral Traditions

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