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given country and region, as well as the aims and<br />

course of the visit. After the presentation, there is<br />

of course an open discussion, talking about personal<br />

impressions and a multitude of questions<br />

from other senior members. An opportunity to<br />

learn about ‘hands-on’ experiences from those<br />

who have been abroad is extremely important not<br />

only for those who are getting prepared for the<br />

next trip.<br />

Those meetings have made it evident that senior<br />

citizens’ attitudes towards European integration,<br />

and not only of those who directly participated<br />

in the project, have changed with time. At the<br />

beginning of international cooperation of such<br />

organisations as ours, they were utterly different<br />

from these observed at the moment of Poland<br />

joining the European Union. This transformation<br />

is best illustrated by what three participants of the<br />

trips have said, which in a way summarises each<br />

year of project implementation.<br />

They are just like us! - noted Maryla (67) after<br />

an international meeting, which we organised in<br />

Kraków during the first year of the project. We<br />

have to remember that elderly people belong to<br />

the generation that did not have any chance to<br />

travel abroad and among whom the knowledge<br />

of foreign languages or a reliable knowledge of<br />

what was going on in other countries of Europe,<br />

particularly in the west, was quite limited. The political<br />

transformation and the opening of the borders<br />

did not change a great deal in the case of this<br />

generation. In fact, an average Pole could travel<br />

freely across Europe and the world, but he did<br />

not have the money to do that and did not know<br />

how to organise a trip - lack of knowledge of a<br />

western language (Russian is not enough) and a<br />

complete lack of experience in travelling around<br />

the world held back the middle-aged and older<br />

generations of Poles from travelling abroad. And<br />

where knowledge is scarce, preconceptions and<br />

fears are formulated. And so from the snatches of<br />

information, a picture of a western pensioner was<br />

formed: well-off, self-confident, going abroad on<br />

holiday, not too much engaged in the life of family<br />

and grandchildren - a person who greatly differs<br />

from a Polish senior citizen. And thanks to face to<br />

face meetings, one could learn that peers from<br />

Denmark or Finland also have a backache and<br />

problems with grandchildren and sometimes even<br />

with paying their electricity bills, and although<br />

now they cope with computers quite well, at the<br />

beginning they were as frightened as us. It simply<br />

turned out that we share much more common<br />

features than those differentiating ones. Europe<br />

ceased to be an unfamiliar and scary place, and<br />

senior citizens started to look ahead with more<br />

curiosity and courage.<br />

In the second year of the project, after a visit to<br />

Finland, where we stayed in a beautiful hotel and<br />

were received at banquets by city’s authorities, I<br />

heard from Zofia (70): I did not think I would live to<br />

see this moment! And again we have to remember<br />

that in the majority of cases elderly people live<br />

with the strong belief that they are not important<br />

any more, that it is not worth doing anything for<br />

them and that everything is already past them.<br />

Additionally, their modest financial resources, sufficient<br />

only to make ends meet, make them stick<br />

firmly to their convictions. How often it was that<br />

at the beginning of our activity, while signing up<br />

for an IT course, we heard: well, perhaps I am not<br />

worth attending the course, maybe it will be more<br />

useful for someone younger. Unfortunately, it<br />

happens so that the family and everybody around<br />

us confirm this opinion – after all, everything is<br />

for the young. And suddenly such a person, first,<br />

goes abroad, which in itself is already a considerable<br />

social event, especially in the eyes of the fam-<br />

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