3 as one book - Kirpal Singh

FAMILYFamilyLET YOUR HOME be peaceful, as a peaceful home contributesmuch toward success in the spiritual practices.Even the bees will fly around in a noisy home to disturbthe equilibrium of the mind. I am glad you are progressing.I have love for you. Any father will do all in hispower to see that his children are at ease.76If you have children, or father, mother, wife, husband,see the Light of God in them. He has united you in thisrelationship, not merely for an outer bond but to see andserve God in them. If you do so, there will be no bondagein your relationships. Bondage occurs only when theI-hood steps in and the Lord is forgotten. So you can doall the world's work, but live like a compass whose needlealways points in one direction. Keep your attention onthe Lord, for if the direction changes, then? The Giveris forgotten, the gifts become loved, and miserable Manforgets the approaching death. Man is fully enwrappedin the world-he is all "me and mine," and wherever"me and mine" are, there rules Illusion. "Me and mine"have some bearing on one's life, but the Lord Himselfhas arranged it, and when everything is seen in the correctperspective there will be no binding effects.77I have led a householder's life. You also should live inthe world, but there is no need to add to its degradation,and to your own. Women in the home should maintainit properly with cleanliness and tidy habits, look after thechildren with interest, and serve their husbands wholeheartedly.This is also a dharma (principle of righteous