Backbiting - Islamic School System - Dawat-e-Islami

314 Backbiting – A Cancer in our Society7. Once I welcomed her and now she finds an excuse to come right at dinner times.8. Her sense of smell is very sharp; the smell of our food reaches her and she shows up.9. They have conflicts every other day at their place.10. Spouses do not get along.11. Their daughter ran away from the house.12. Yesterday, her oldest son beat her.13. Those neighbours do not even fulfil the rights of other neighbours.14. The grumpy old man living upstairs really bothers us.15. Children of the family living on the second floor are really mischievous.16. First of all their child hit my child, and when I complained, he started arguing with me.17. They do not listen if you complain about their children.18. He enters our home without even knocking on the door.19. Our landlord lives upstairs. I cannot even begin to tell you about the hard time hegives us.20. Their son got married with a joyous celebration, but he did not even invite us out ofcourtesy. We were not keen on attending their reception, Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ‏ has blessed uswith ample food.17 Examples of backbiting during engagements and weddingsWhile both parties are trying to establish a relationship, they act very sweet, but still thebackbiting continues during and after the engagement. Here are seventeen such examples:1. They are rude people.2. They should have come to our house to invite us.3. They only sent an invitation.4. They only invited us over the phone.5. Her mother-in-law did not even send anyone to pick her up.6. We let them bring many guests to our invite; however they did not let us bring alongas many guests in their event.