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influential-magazine.com<br />

LIFESTYLE<br />

But, what tends to happen to<br />

those ideas and desires? If you’re<br />

anything like the common<br />

teenager, many of those ideas simply<br />

turn into dreams and fantasies you think<br />

are impossible to reach. But, why let<br />

those incredible ideas or desires fade into<br />

whimsical, ungraspable fantasies? Get the<br />

gears cranking and make them reality.<br />

Don’t know where to start?<br />

Begin with the basics. Write<br />

your idea or goal down. Turn<br />

it into something tangible,<br />

something visual that<br />

will remind you about<br />

it Every. Single. Day.<br />

Got the idea<br />

written down?<br />

Great. Now visualize yourself accomplishing<br />

the task. See yourself in the future<br />

presenting at a conference in front of<br />

an audience. Imagine the noise of the<br />

crowd as you swish a three point to win<br />

the championship basketball game.<br />

Think about what your commercial for<br />

your new product would look like on the<br />

TV screen in the homes of thousands. Feeling<br />

pumped yet?<br />

Once you have visualized your end<br />

goal and can’t wait to make it real, write<br />

down the process on how you plan to<br />

get there. Think step by step and write<br />

each one down. Keep in mind the most<br />

important actions that will need to take<br />

place. Highlight, bold, italicize, make the<br />

key actions stick out so you stay on track.<br />

Although in writing down the key pieces<br />

towards your end goal you should<br />

remain as realistic as possible, don’t be<br />

afraid to create a creative list too. Write<br />

down all of the possibilities, regardless<br />

of how impossible they might seem<br />

at the time. You never know what<br />

opportunities will present<br />

themselves to you when<br />

you least expect it.<br />

Now that you have all of your ideas<br />

and plans written down, it’s time to<br />

start putting them into action. Do you<br />

have trouble remembering to actually<br />

stick with your plan? There are a few<br />

things that might help you. One option<br />

is to create deadlines. Write them in<br />

your calendar and set reminders on<br />

your phone. Leave a post-it note on<br />

your refrigerator, or a checklist on your<br />

bathroom mirror. If you are still having<br />

trouble finding the motivation and<br />

tend to just ignore all of your notes and<br />

reminders, find an accountability partner.<br />

Having an accountability partner is a<br />

super great way to stay motivated as you<br />

can’t just “ignore” your mother or best<br />

friend the way you can that post-it note<br />

of your fridge. Though don’t pick just<br />

anyone to hold you accountable. You<br />

want to pick someone who you trust, are<br />

friendly with, don’t want to let down, and<br />

- most importantly - won’t forget and will<br />

remind you to work towards your goal<br />

and will encourage you in your process.<br />

Ultimately, don’t give up on yourself.<br />

Don’t do yourself a disservice by not<br />

believing that you can accomplish<br />

anything that you set your mind to.<br />

Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you<br />

get stuck. Sure, there are a few thorns<br />

in the garden, but majority of people,<br />

whether they know you or not, want<br />

you to succeed. Your success is often the<br />

beginning towards success for others<br />

who you have inspired or helped<br />

through your ideas that you<br />

didn’t give up on. l<br />

TEEN<br />

FLUENTIAL 323

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