InFluential_Magazine_March_April_2017
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influential-magazine.com<br />
LIFESTYLE<br />
But, what tends to happen to<br />
those ideas and desires? If you’re<br />
anything like the common<br />
teenager, many of those ideas simply<br />
turn into dreams and fantasies you think<br />
are impossible to reach. But, why let<br />
those incredible ideas or desires fade into<br />
whimsical, ungraspable fantasies? Get the<br />
gears cranking and make them reality.<br />
Don’t know where to start?<br />
Begin with the basics. Write<br />
your idea or goal down. Turn<br />
it into something tangible,<br />
something visual that<br />
will remind you about<br />
it Every. Single. Day.<br />
Got the idea<br />
written down?<br />
Great. Now visualize yourself accomplishing<br />
the task. See yourself in the future<br />
presenting at a conference in front of<br />
an audience. Imagine the noise of the<br />
crowd as you swish a three point to win<br />
the championship basketball game.<br />
Think about what your commercial for<br />
your new product would look like on the<br />
TV screen in the homes of thousands. Feeling<br />
pumped yet?<br />
Once you have visualized your end<br />
goal and can’t wait to make it real, write<br />
down the process on how you plan to<br />
get there. Think step by step and write<br />
each one down. Keep in mind the most<br />
important actions that will need to take<br />
place. Highlight, bold, italicize, make the<br />
key actions stick out so you stay on track.<br />
Although in writing down the key pieces<br />
towards your end goal you should<br />
remain as realistic as possible, don’t be<br />
afraid to create a creative list too. Write<br />
down all of the possibilities, regardless<br />
of how impossible they might seem<br />
at the time. You never know what<br />
opportunities will present<br />
themselves to you when<br />
you least expect it.<br />
Now that you have all of your ideas<br />
and plans written down, it’s time to<br />
start putting them into action. Do you<br />
have trouble remembering to actually<br />
stick with your plan? There are a few<br />
things that might help you. One option<br />
is to create deadlines. Write them in<br />
your calendar and set reminders on<br />
your phone. Leave a post-it note on<br />
your refrigerator, or a checklist on your<br />
bathroom mirror. If you are still having<br />
trouble finding the motivation and<br />
tend to just ignore all of your notes and<br />
reminders, find an accountability partner.<br />
Having an accountability partner is a<br />
super great way to stay motivated as you<br />
can’t just “ignore” your mother or best<br />
friend the way you can that post-it note<br />
of your fridge. Though don’t pick just<br />
anyone to hold you accountable. You<br />
want to pick someone who you trust, are<br />
friendly with, don’t want to let down, and<br />
- most importantly - won’t forget and will<br />
remind you to work towards your goal<br />
and will encourage you in your process.<br />
Ultimately, don’t give up on yourself.<br />
Don’t do yourself a disservice by not<br />
believing that you can accomplish<br />
anything that you set your mind to.<br />
Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you<br />
get stuck. Sure, there are a few thorns<br />
in the garden, but majority of people,<br />
whether they know you or not, want<br />
you to succeed. Your success is often the<br />
beginning towards success for others<br />
who you have inspired or helped<br />
through your ideas that you<br />
didn’t give up on. l<br />
TEEN<br />
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