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INSTITUTIONALIZED CHILD CARE IN URBAN SOUTH AFRICA

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When children did draw negative emotions, I asked them what sorts of things<br />

usually make them unhappy. I already understood quite well that many of the children<br />

had experienced past traumas, but I was also unsure if they would be able to connect<br />

those to more consistent emotional states. I asked Thembani, a seven year-old boy who<br />

drew a frightened face, what it was that made him scared he smiled and replied “getting<br />

beaten!” Upon following up with more questions, it seemed that he mostly meant to refer<br />

to corporal punishment rather than intense physical abuse. More than anything, this<br />

simply reflected the cultural norms surrounding child discipline, and the broad crosscultural<br />

phenomenon of children being afraid of punishment. Other boys seemed to echo<br />

this common fear, but with a sense of humor, and when I offered to tell them a bedtime<br />

story if they drew along, they requested a story about a boy who gets spanked with a belt<br />

by his mother after failing to buy all the proper things at the market. The center itself did<br />

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