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INSTITUTIONALIZED CHILD CARE IN URBAN SOUTH AFRICA

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provide guidance for some of the teenagers as they learned various life skills.<br />

The differences in cultural perspectives surrounding emancipation and<br />

independence were visible as my conversations went back and forth from Pastor Mike to<br />

the teenagers. In addition to cultural differences there were also generation gaps, perhaps<br />

more exaggerated for this generation than ones past due to the dramatic systemic changes<br />

in South Africa over the past twenty years. Unsurprisingly, this often led to<br />

disagreements between staff and children over what should be expected for one’s final<br />

years at the center. Lindikhaya told me that some of the boys who had recently left the<br />

center did so after failing to reach an agreement with staff members. “This is a difficult<br />

scenario for me,” admitted Pastor Mike. “One of the few times things are a bit different<br />

from how I would be able to handle things if this were my own child. When I take<br />

children in, I commit to decades of caring for them, but of course if they do not want to<br />

receive the care that I have to offer and what comes with it, then I am not in a position to<br />

stop them from pursuing their own path.”<br />

Times that this happened were apparently rare. Expulsions were also a rarity, in<br />

spite of the one that had happened just a month before my arrival. Some supporters<br />

disagreed with how the center handled cases of teen pregnancy in the past, but this was<br />

also a rarity despite South Africa having an above average rate of teen pregnancies. Girls<br />

who became pregnant would be sent away from the center, however Pastor Mike clarified<br />

what happens in those instances. “We do not have the resources to care for later stage<br />

pregnancies here,” he explained. “We also cannot care for a newborn. We do have other<br />

facilities and centers we are partnered with, and that is where girls go if they get<br />

pregnant.”<br />

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