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INSTITUTIONALIZED CHILD CARE IN URBAN SOUTH AFRICA

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jokingly and evasively at first, then, if he felt comfortable enough, would follow up with<br />

a more serious answer. He then looked at me more seriously and said, “I have somewhere<br />

to live in Thembisa. I’ll be fine.”<br />

The collective interest in Buzwes’ transition opened my eyes to the challenges that<br />

face many of the center’s children who become adults. Buzwe had been at the center for<br />

over nine years, and hardly anyone could remember a time when he wasn’t there. His<br />

transition, to live with his brother as he made the transition into adulthood was the<br />

common pattern for children at the center. Low self-esteem, a lack of preparation, and<br />

limited opportunities could potentially derail a child’s chance at a healthy and secure<br />

adulthood. As one volunteer described the transition process to me, “it would be a real<br />

shame to have invested into a child’s life for eighteen years only to have them turn to<br />

drugs or gangs or prostitution at the the end of it.”<br />

The end of the road is difficult to determine<br />

When is it that children transition out of the center? This turned out to be a question<br />

with no straightforward answer. The time for children to be emancipated from the center<br />

was determined by a variety of factors. This included the child’s actual age, their level of<br />

academic attainment, and what living situation most likely awaited them. In addition, the<br />

legal process of emancipating a child also comes with its own obstacles and may also<br />

alter timelines. Ultimately, the most ideal time for a child’s emancipation comes about<br />

through a series of difficult judgement calls.<br />

Buzwe’s status as the oldest child at the center was a relatively new phenomenon.<br />

A year prior, there were four boys older than him still living at the center. Two moved<br />

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