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92 Alison Leigh Brown<br />
With respect to <strong>the</strong> odd selection from Dostoevski I can only say<br />
that whatever Fyodor meant, <strong>the</strong> lesson to me is that breaking down<br />
<strong>of</strong> civility is worse than becoming an idiot.<br />
I have a wonderful new student. She is ruthlessly polite, quite<br />
smart, moderately well read, caffeine laden and darting. We are working<br />
on her speaking style that is still too excitable. She exclaims over<br />
Irigaray and finds it hard to find fault with someone she reveres. I am<br />
doing my best to point out <strong>the</strong> worst in Irigaray’s work so that Carinessa<br />
(that is her name, her parents must be crazy) can adopt a more sophisticated<br />
distance from authors she loves. I am absolutely committed to<br />
getting her hired. It is more important to me this year than finishing<br />
<strong>the</strong> book. (This chapter will be done, it might be enough to send out<br />
with a prospectus but I don’t even care. How much better to have a<br />
live work out and about spreading good words about my brilliance and<br />
replicating my work. Carinessa will be my greatest product to date. It<br />
is terribly exciting to have, finally, a really good student. I wish you<br />
could find somebody.)<br />
Oh my, it is time to go eat dinner. I am finding that if I make<br />
a dinner appointment for every night, my work goes much better <strong>the</strong><br />
next day. The conversations <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> night before give a rhythm to my<br />
writing it would not o<strong>the</strong>rwise have. Tonight I sup with <strong>the</strong> darling<br />
Corey and <strong>the</strong> adulterous Ryan. I called and invited Michael just to be<br />
mean; that is, I was hoping he would say yes and <strong>the</strong>n I could watch<br />
Ryan watching <strong>the</strong> extent <strong>of</strong> his loss played over and over again. But<br />
Michael said no and who can blame him for that? We are going to a<br />
Chinese place that is quite good. I am bringing Terri and Jennifer. I<br />
invited Carinessa but she is too shy to eat with <strong>the</strong> great Ryan. (She<br />
says to me, to me having just come from receiving tenure, I know you<br />
know <strong>the</strong>se things but it is galling beyond measure to have her all gaga<br />
over Ryan when I have <strong>the</strong> better record. She says to me, “Oh I<br />
couldn’t possibly swallow a morsel in his presence.” I thought she was<br />
going to say “He’s so awesome,” or some o<strong>the</strong>r <strong>American</strong> phrase I<br />
would mangle, but not completely, given my acculturation and etc.)<br />
When I wake tomorrow morning I’ll work out vigorously, going over<br />
<strong>the</strong> things Ryan has said and noting without a little cattiness <strong>the</strong> way<br />
he has to change his vocabulary to talk to <strong>the</strong> adorable Corey. Then I<br />
will turn to my treatise on civility with great happiness, marred only<br />
by your lack <strong>of</strong> being here. I love you and miss you and wish we could