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With the Serbs in Macedonia

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THE SERBIANS 237<br />

one th<strong>in</strong>ks of as Democratic or Socialistic.<br />

They are free without be<strong>in</strong>g familiar, <strong>in</strong>dependent<br />

without be<strong>in</strong>g aggressive. Obviously each<br />

Serb considers he is as good as his neighbour,<br />

and has <strong>the</strong> gift of mak<strong>in</strong>g his neighbour feel it,<br />

while at <strong>the</strong> same time pay<strong>in</strong>g enough deference<br />

to a superiority <strong>in</strong> wealth, army rank, bra<strong>in</strong>s,<br />

or social atta<strong>in</strong>ments. This is someth<strong>in</strong>g very<br />

subtle and difficult to express — a touch of <strong>in</strong>born<br />

genius which nei<strong>the</strong>r <strong>the</strong> American nor <strong>the</strong><br />

Australian can rival. Psychologically, however,<br />

it is very important, and represents a great deal<br />

of his charm.<br />

The Serb has his faults. Unpunctuality is<br />

''<br />

one. A temptation to say Yes " is ano<strong>the</strong>r.<br />

Partly from politeness, partly from laz<strong>in</strong>ess,<br />

many Serbians are always ready to promise<br />

someth<strong>in</strong>g ra<strong>the</strong>r than to refuse, <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> hope<br />

that <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r chap will go away and forget all<br />

about it or else that <strong>the</strong>y may never see him<br />

aga<strong>in</strong>. Their attitude to women, too, is ra<strong>the</strong>r<br />

offensive to our ideas. Though better <strong>in</strong> this<br />

respect than ei<strong>the</strong>r Greek or Bulgar, <strong>the</strong>y have<br />

ask one<br />

still much to learn. Incidentally, if you<br />

of <strong>the</strong>m how many children he has, he will say<br />

two, mean<strong>in</strong>g two boys, though <strong>the</strong>re may be a<br />

couple of girls as well. But <strong>the</strong>y do not count.<br />

One of <strong>the</strong>ir chief customs, religiously kept up<br />

even <strong>in</strong> war-time, is <strong>the</strong> Slava, <strong>the</strong> literal

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