978-1572305441
autism
autism
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A Sharon Mind Apart<br />
Chapter 5<br />
Sharon<br />
Seeing Other Minds Darkly<br />
The mail comes to the office in the afternoon, and I usually<br />
search through it quickly, hoping for a letter or two among the notices<br />
and requests. Sometimes the mail I receive is sad and poignant. Parents<br />
will write about delays in getting a diagnosis for their child or ask for<br />
another assessment, unsatisfied with their first encounter. Other letters<br />
ask about treatment options and what services parents should choose<br />
among the bewildering array of possibilities open to them. Other letters<br />
tell stories of children who are in trouble, who are teased by their classmates<br />
or are in danger of losing their school placement. Sometimes I receive<br />
correspondence thanking me for some small deed like writing a<br />
letter of support or giving a talk that proved helpful. I keep all these<br />
notes tucked away in a special drawer.<br />
Some letters, though, catch me completely unprepared. One letter<br />
was written by an adult who wondered if people ever recovered from<br />
autism or AS. Sharon’s letter began: “I would like to make an appointment<br />
for an assessment. Obviously, I cannot really be autistic, or even<br />
have Asperger syndrome since I have a husband, a child, and a career.<br />
But since I first heard of autism I have thought of it as ‘my problem,’ and<br />
this conviction only deepens as I learn more, and as I fail to change myself<br />
despite my best efforts. While professional diagnosis might be a<br />
comfort, professional denigration would be painful, which is why I have<br />
avoided exposing myself to anyone qualified to deny my self-diagnosis.<br />
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