The Spinster and Her Enemies - Feminish
The Spinster and Her Enemies - Feminish
The Spinster and Her Enemies - Feminish
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CONTINENCE AND PSYCHIC LOVE<br />
Evil. <strong>Her</strong> message was that ‘sexual disease’ caused by men’s<br />
immorality was transmitted to wives who were usually ignorant<br />
of what was wrong with them <strong>and</strong> would be kept in deliberate<br />
ignorance by doctors as to the real nature of their illness, lest<br />
their husb<strong>and</strong>s might be embarrassed. <strong>The</strong> diseases were ‘the<br />
great cause of physical, mental, <strong>and</strong> moral degeneracy <strong>and</strong> of<br />
race suicide’, she said, <strong>and</strong> 75–80 per cent of men had gonorrhoea<br />
whilst a considerable percentage of the rest had syphilis. <strong>The</strong><br />
cure for venereal disease was ‘Votes for women <strong>and</strong> chastity for<br />
men.’<br />
<strong>The</strong> feminists of the pre-war period continued to raise the<br />
ideas which we have seen voiced by feminists in the 1890s<br />
about the general effects on women of the form taken by male<br />
sexuality. <strong>The</strong>y saw the general effect as being to institute a<br />
system of ‘sex-slavery’ for women, in which women were seen<br />
only in terms of sex <strong>and</strong> of no other functions. This sexualisation<br />
of woman led to her being considered fit for no other career<br />
than that of sexual object <strong>and</strong> affected the opportunites of all<br />
women for education, work, <strong>and</strong> general self-development.<br />
Christabel Pankhurst wrote that sexual disease was due to the<br />
‘doctrine that woman is sex <strong>and</strong> beyond that nothing’. Often,<br />
she said, this doctrine was dressed up by men into the idea that<br />
women were <strong>and</strong> should be mothers but this was really a<br />
deception:<br />
What a man who says that really means is that women are<br />
created primarily for the sex gratification of men, <strong>and</strong><br />
secondarily, for the bearing of children if he happens to want<br />
them, but of no more children that he wants. 34<br />
<strong>The</strong> result of male desires had been that ‘the relation between<br />
man <strong>and</strong> woman has centred in the physical’, <strong>and</strong> the<br />
relationship had become that of ‘master <strong>and</strong> slave’.<br />
Cicely Hamilton, a playwright <strong>and</strong> member of the Actresses<br />
Franchise League, wrote Marriage as a Trade in 1909. She<br />
defined marriage as a trade because it entailed the exchange of<br />
women’s bodies for subsistence. She charged men with having<br />
emphasised only the sex faculty in woman in order to gratify<br />
their desire.<br />
Sex is only one of the ingredients of the natural woman—an<br />
ingredient which has assumed undue <strong>and</strong> exaggerated<br />
proportions in her life owing to the fact that it has for many<br />
generations furnished her with the means of her livelihood.<br />
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