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While some people lament the ”foolishness” of their youth, looking back at my own young adult years, I’m surprised at my own youthful perceptiveness and foresight about what choices would best suit the needs of my then-imaginary children and family. I’m curious to know what life choices did you make as an inexperienced young adult that have continued to serve you well? [2] The boys playing in our place last year–not hypothetical children anymore! [3] Front of house [4] Back deck. See why I love it here? 1. http://talkbirth.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/remerfamily-027-copy.jpg 2. http://talkbirth.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/100_2457.jpg 403
3. http://talkbirth.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/100_2479.jpg 4. http://talkbirth.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/100_2473.jpg The Illusion of Choice (2011-12-30 09:39) A choice is not a choice if it is made in the context of fear. Informed choice is a popular phrase with birth professionals and healthy birth activists. I’ve read impassioned blog posts from doulas and birth activists claiming that if we support women’s right to homebirth, we must also support her ”choice” to have an elective cesarean. But, I believe we have constructed a collaborative mythos within the birth activist community that an informed choice is possible for most women. The statistics tell us a different story. I do not believe that women with full ability to exercise their choices would choose many of the things that are typically on the “menu” for birth in mainstream culture. What’s on the menu? Women give their blanket ”informed consent” to all manner of hospital procedures without the corollary of informed refusal–is a choice a choice when you don’t have the option of saying no? In many hospitals, women are STILL not allowed to eat during labor despite ample evidence that this practice is harmful–is a choice a real choice if made in the context of hospital ”policies” that are not evidence-based? Women are told that their babies are “too big” and then “choose” a cesarean. Is a choice a choice when it is made in the context of coercion and deception? Women choose hospitals and obstetricians that are covered by their insurance companies. Is a choice a real choice when it is made by your HMO? Women choose hospital birth because they cannot find a local midwife. Is a choice a real choice when it is made in the context of restrictive laws and hostile political climates? Women often state they are seeking ”balanced” birth classes that aren’t ”biased” towards natural birth (or towards hospital birth), but is a choice a choice when it is made in the context of misrepresented information? Because, as Kim Wildner notes, balance means “to make two parts equal”–what if the two parts aren’t equal? What is the value of information that appears balanced, but is not factually accurate? Pointing out inequalities and giving evidence-based information does not make an educator “biased” or judgmental–it makes her honest! (though honesty can be “heard” as judgment when it does not reflect one’s own opinions or experiences). On a somewhat related note, recently, the subject of “quiverfull” families came up amongst my friends and comments were made about feminists needing to support those women’s “choice” to have so many children. However, I worry about women who are making reproductive ”choices” in the context of what can be a very repressive religious tradition. Women’s choices about their lives are not always made with free agency. And, that is where some feminist critiques of other women’s choices come from–a critique of the larger context (patriarchy) rather than the woman herself. Is a choice a choice when it is made in the context of oppression? 404
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Talk Birth 2011 By Molly Remer
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Contents 1 2011 9 1.1 January . . .
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Updating My Birth Quotes! (2011-05-
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Chapter 1 2011 1.1 January Happy Ne
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ductions about 6 years ago! She see
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or tenderness, and wonder.” -via
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Molly Remer, MSW, ICCE, CCCE is a c
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[4] After the ceremony, I set up a
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‎”Birth is one of the most prof
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fondness instead of regret. Instead
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My Baby Girl is Here! (2011-01-23 2
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We did it! | Footprints on My Heart
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[5] Side view I actually made this
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Northrup ”The intrinsic intellige
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look :) My new baby is already one
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[1] Waves breaking at Montana De Or
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have TONS more ideas about this top
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Birth & Breastfeeding in Unexpected
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Blessed be this gathering with the
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and following my own guidelines. SU
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Book Review: Times Two (2011-03-18
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I’m getting ready to start teachi
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thought maybe I should never post q
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and working to lessen the pain they
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[4] And now, here is my full birth
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just a really great baby. She is to
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[1] I have to laugh at our nearly i
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of my spirituality (I semi-joke tha
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[1] Nursing my brand new baby boy!
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loved one. The five identities expl
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said he’d changed his mind and th
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[2] All the reasons I’m a mother!
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about her. I have noticed the same
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[2] I feel a little critical of it
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current health status of a large se
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initiation, few events that challen
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Review: A Book for Midwives (2011-0
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the birth culture in the U.S. Is th
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Book Review: Arms Wide Open: A Midw
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the Advancement of Midwifery has ma
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Lead with your spirit, rise above t
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title inspired by[3] Literary Mama.
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• [9]Book Review: The Father’s
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Viewing the act of breastfeeding th
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Postpartum Feelings, Part 3 (2011-0
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Terina (2011-06-26 21:39:08) Awesom
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I truly think this is a chronic soc
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talkbirth (2011-06-29 14:00:53) So
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New Lives is a compilation of essay
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[3] Taking a break from nursing to
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What do they say? They tell me ther
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Karen (2011-07-15 04:48:07) I’ll
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glad to leave it behind and snuggle
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Out of respect for Native tradition
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[2] Telling you all about it... 1.
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Book Review: Ben Behind His Voices
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Rainy Wedding (2011-07-25 11:26) [1
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and taking pictures of the placenta
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Book Review: In Search of the Perfe
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[5] They both make me happy when I
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links for thought, July 2011 (2 of
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After that missed call, I had a dre
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snuggly tucked inside my bra, its p
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me of my own [3]How to Meditate wit
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In the late 70’s and early 80’s
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A Fresh Look at Discipline (2011-08
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”I’m not a feminist, but...”
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”Let me save you some money: In a
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Take Pictures (2011-08-23 18:50) I
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and threads of your fears. Wrap you
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one came first! This morning, as I
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you really DO need another minute t
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to guage) reference points they are
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mind—clear out any cobwebs and as
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alert. It is important to take deep
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are very active and dynamic in feel
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with a new baby. Women tend to be h
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Today editorial by Jan Tritten ”C
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much you practice relaxation, how m
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not just hear about it.” -Mayim B
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Review & Recipe: The Artisanal Kitc
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Sometimes I have more ”figured ou
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during grading times—another of w
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[2] Zander picking stuff [3] Alaina
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she enjoyed our company so much tha
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get into graduate school and that r
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[6] View from the top Happy birthda
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