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Threshold Moments (<strong>2011</strong>-03-16 10:49)<br />

In cleaning off my desk this weekend, I found the following note from a webinar by Rose St. John that I<br />

attended some time ago:<br />

”Labor is all about finding your threshold and learning your can go beyond it.” –Rose St. John<br />

[1]<br />

Threshold Stone, Newgrange, Ireland<br />

I think one of the powerful lessons of birth is about one’s own immense capacity—each of my births has<br />

had a ”threshold” moment and, indeed, I have some notes taken for a possible future article about ”At the<br />

Threshold: Pivotal Moments in <strong>Birth</strong>.” With my first son it was during pushing when I realized I had to<br />

just do it, I had to push him out even though it was scaring me to do it. With my second son, it was when<br />

I realized that I was actually in labor—I had a distinct sense of literally crossing a threshold. A sense of,<br />

”there is no turning back now. I’m going back into the house and I’m having a baby.” With my third son, it<br />

was when I got up in the night feeling contractions and went into the kitchen. There, I talked to the baby,<br />

telling him it was time to let go of each other—”Lets do this. Lets get it done by 3:00” (and we did).With<br />

my last baby, it was when I was talking to myself prior to pushing—fretting that I was too ”in my head” and<br />

not letting go enough. After this moment, I did let go and she was born very rapidly after that.<br />

So, looks like I had two ”pushing” thresholds and two ”bring it on—labor is beginning” thresholds. The<br />

pushing thresholds occurred during my longer labors and the bring it on moments during my short labors.<br />

1. http://www.sacred-destinations.com/ireland/newgrange<br />

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