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My Battle with Merkel Cell Cancer

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I hope that my dad is well enough to post for himself soon, but while we wait for that I will<br />

do my best to take his dictation.<br />

I know I led off <strong>with</strong> this, but it is important enough to repeat: <strong>My</strong> dad is truly appreciative<br />

of all of the support.<br />

He has his iPhone <strong>with</strong> him and is reading email at times when his concentration is good.<br />

He may not have time or the concentration to reply to emails, but rest assured that they<br />

are reaching him.<br />

-- Gary Shuster<br />

Posted by Gary Shuster at 10:22PM (-08:00)<br />

It's Heavy<br />

Friday, March 02, 2012<br />

<strong>My</strong> dad has spent the last 12 nights in the hospital. The urgency of the first days has<br />

given way to a different world where the hours, days, nights, even weeks seem to run<br />

together.<br />

As much as we try to empathize <strong>with</strong> others, we never really know what they are feeling<br />

or thinking. I do know what my dad has seen, heard, and had done to him since coming<br />

to the hospital. I've taken a photograph of the view my dad has had continuously for the<br />

past ten days. We've taken time to decorate the wall for him <strong>with</strong> the pictures we think he<br />

would most like.<br />

The view from my dad's hospital bed.<br />

On the left is a group shot (taken on the cruise in December). On the right is a grid of<br />

photos, arranged as follows:<br />

[Eva] [Sara] [Sammie]<br />

[Bel] [Eli]<br />

[Family] [Rocky]<br />

Eva is my oldest daughter (now 11); Sara is my middle daughter (now 4); Sammie is my<br />

brother's daughter (turned 4 a few days ago); Bel is my youngest daughter (now 2); Eli is<br />

my brother's son (now 1). Rocky is my parents' golden doodle. Along the bottom of the<br />

<strong>My</strong> <strong>Battle</strong> <strong>with</strong> <strong>Merkel</strong> <strong>Cell</strong> <strong>Cancer</strong><br />

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