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112 | Turbulent Adolescence<br />
to one owner, seek group consensus, or even seek unanimous<br />
agreement. The trick is to use all the styles, as appropriate,<br />
and not just one. My coach suggested that we have a decision<br />
drive. Everyone on my staff could list up to five decisions that<br />
were festering, and my homework assignment was to respond<br />
to all <strong>of</strong> them. I didn’t have to decide them myself, but the<br />
assignment was that for each one, I needed a process to close<br />
the decision in relatively short order. Dealing with such a big<br />
list at once forced me to use a variety <strong>of</strong> techniques, and we<br />
cleared up the backlog.<br />
In this particular case, Dan’s advice was not so useful.<br />
He said, “Never make a decision before you have to.” That’s<br />
probably good advice for someone, but not for me. Advice is<br />
funny that way: what’s perfect for one person may be awful for<br />
another.<br />
My coach’s advice went from subtle, like the decision drive,<br />
to simple. I sometimes struggled to escape from one-on-one<br />
meetings that were running over. Little hints didn’t always work.<br />
Isabella’s simple advice: “Stand up. Then they’ll stand up—it’s<br />
only natural. And then you can both walk toward the door.”<br />
I remembered some other management lessons from my<br />
life before NetApp. Bill Horton, a director back when I was<br />
at Auspex, taught me the importance <strong>of</strong> early milestones. It’s<br />
common to throw a party when a product finally ships, but<br />
that’s not very motivational because by then the engineers who<br />
did initial design work may have already moved on to other<br />
projects. So Bill looked for things to celebrate early in the<br />
development process. The instant we met the goal, he would<br />
make a big announcement and open a bottle <strong>of</strong> champagne,<br />
whatever time it was.