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Introduction to Mindfulness - Dean Amory

Art and Benefits of Mindfulness Meditation

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just somewhere else most of the time… I was trying <strong>to</strong> be<br />

mindful of everyday things”<br />

- “Some days I have wobbly thoughts, but I try <strong>to</strong> ‘let it be’ and just<br />

come back <strong>to</strong> my breathing”<br />

- “For the first time in my life I’ve noticed how nasty I am <strong>to</strong><br />

myself…”<br />

The major portion of the first half of this session was given over <strong>to</strong><br />

25 minutes Yoga, followed by 15 minute sitting meditation (with 1-<br />

minute breaks where we checked that people were doing ok)).<br />

Emotions<br />

We discussed emotions as being the body’s language for how we were<br />

experiencing the world. Emotions were messengers that were trying<br />

<strong>to</strong> alert us <strong>to</strong> something that was happening between us and the<br />

world. We could disregard them or we could ‘invite them in’ and<br />

listen <strong>to</strong> what they might be alerting us <strong>to</strong>. Our emotional reactions<br />

can be very subjective and therefore do not always correspond<br />

accurately with what’s happening in the external world, but they do<br />

identify very accurately how we are feeling in ourselves and thus they<br />

provide us with important information.<br />

They are a more reliable source of information than our au<strong>to</strong>matic<br />

thoughts. And they can also be a good radar system, telling us when<br />

something in our world isn’t quite right.<br />

The problem for most of us is that we’re on au<strong>to</strong> pilot most of the<br />

time and we don’t even notice what we’re feeling until our emotions<br />

are so strong that they overwhelm us. <strong>Mindfulness</strong> teaches us how <strong>to</strong><br />

come off au<strong>to</strong>pilot and take time <strong>to</strong> notice painful emotions as they<br />

begin <strong>to</strong> gather force. And as one member pointed out, “if we don’t<br />

listen, we can end up dead.”<br />

We read and discussed Rumi’s poem “The Guest House” and I<br />

offered <strong>to</strong> show DVD of Thich Nhat Hahn next week where he<br />

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