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Introduction to Mindfulness - Dean Amory

Art and Benefits of Mindfulness Meditation

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<strong>Mindfulness</strong> exercises for the fourth week<br />

1. For the remaining two weeks of this class, extend your daily<br />

meditation session <strong>to</strong> 30 minutes.<br />

For at least the first ten minutes, keep your meditation simple -- focus<br />

on the breath. To the best of your ability, when some other<br />

experience gets in the way of being with the breath, simply let it go<br />

and come back <strong>to</strong> the breath. After this ten-minute warm-up period,<br />

switch <strong>to</strong> more open mindfulness. This means continuing with the<br />

breath until something else becomes more compelling. When physical<br />

sensations, emotions or thinking predominate, let go of the breath<br />

and focus your meditative awareness on these. When nothing else is<br />

compelling, come back <strong>to</strong> the breathing.<br />

2. Spend some time reflecting on the assumptions, attitudes and<br />

beliefs you have about your thoughts. Do you usually assume that<br />

they are either true false, right or wrong? Do you identify with your<br />

thoughts? That is, do you think that what you think defines who you<br />

are? Do you believe that your thinking will solve your problems or<br />

that it is the only means <strong>to</strong> understand something? After you have<br />

reflected on this on your own, have a conversation with someone<br />

about what you have discovered.<br />

3. Once during the next week, spend a two-hour period tracking the<br />

kinds of things you think about. Find some way <strong>to</strong> remind yourself<br />

every few minutes <strong>to</strong> notice what you are thinking. Are the thoughts<br />

primarily self-referential or primarily about others? Do they tend <strong>to</strong><br />

be critical or judgmental? What is the frequency of thoughts of<br />

"should" or "ought"? Are the thoughts mostly directed <strong>to</strong> the future,<br />

<strong>to</strong> the past, or <strong>to</strong>ward fantasy? Do you tend more <strong>to</strong>ward optimistic<br />

thoughts or pessimistic ones? Do your thoughts tend <strong>to</strong> be<br />

apprehensive or peaceful? Contented or dissatisfied?<br />

This is not an exercise in judging what you notice, but in simply<br />

noticing. Most people live in their thoughts. This is a two-hour<br />

exercise in regularly and frequently stepping outside of the thought<br />

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