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Practice <br />

Targeting High St<strong>and</strong>ards <br />

• Choose a role/responsibility that you have <br />

at work or at school. <br />

• Write down your st<strong>and</strong>ards. <br />

• Rate the importance of those st<strong>and</strong>ards. <br />

• How important are these st<strong>and</strong>ards in <br />

relation to your values <br />

• Is this a value that could be adjusted <br />

• How would you change it <br />

Practice <br />

• Are they too high <br />

• Are they misguided <br />

• Are they unrealistic <br />

• Are they consistent with what we really value <br />

in our life <br />

• Have you lost sight of why you were engaged in <br />

the task <br />

• What are the consequences of performing at a <br />

lower st<strong>and</strong>ard <br />

Two Targets <br />

SATURDAY<br />

• Focusing on ALL the outcomes… <br />

• Exp<strong>and</strong>ing our perspective… <br />

• Nine dots… <br />

High<br />

St<strong>and</strong>ards<br />

High<br />

St<strong>and</strong>ards &<br />

Rigidity<br />

Rigidity<br />

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